I read in class 11 and I have a GF who always demands me for gifts,resturants,outings etc etc. I came from a rich family but my parents did not allow me heavy pocket money.Give some remedies for tackling my GF.She is very cute and good and I can't leave her.Please Help.
2007-01-22 17:33:22 · 16 answers · asked by icy_cool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you answered your own question when you said "Give me some remedies for tackling my GF." I won't tell you exactly what the answer is, but you could probably figure it out. She sounds like a gold-digger anyways, maybe you should start thinking about dropping that piece of trash. Or maybe just call her some choice names (like a B or C).
2007-01-22 17:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me ... very cute and good... what's good about being extravagant? She's bleeding you dry and she's still good, have you lost your mind? Did you ever tell her that your family is the one who is rich not you since you don't have an allowance that can afford a girl like her. Did you ever wonder why she is even with you? Did you ask her why she demands gifts, restaurants and etc...... ? Did she grew up in a rich family because that's probably one of the reason why she's used to extravagance, and if not maybe she's just with you because she knows your rich. Or maybe she's just testing how far you're going to go to give her what she wants. Talk to her and let her know you can't always afford what she ask from you, if she leaves you after that it means she's only in for the money if not then you know what that means....
2007-01-23 03:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by linzee604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The high road to take on this one is to tell you to develop an true, meaningful relationship with her by doing things that don't cost a lot of money and really get to know her as a person and if she really likes you for who you are, she will stay without the frills, but that was not your question..it was how to keep her.
Sorry pal, you need to get a part-time job to support your girlfriend's expensive habits and study hard and find a career that will pay you a good wage when you get older as she will only expect bigger, better as you are now setting the standards for any relationship later on.
2007-01-23 01:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur gf is demanding those sorts of things does that not make u wonder why shes really with u? She should be with u cause u make her happy by just being urself not cause u can buy her stuff, i would just stop giving in and if she doesnt like it then kick her to the curb
2007-01-23 01:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're not made of money and that if she wants all these things, she should get a job and pay for them herself. You don't HAVE to buy your girlfriend stuff. Yeah, it's nice but it's not a requirement. Some girls will do this thinking they can get away with it. They'll stop if you show them you have a backbone. If you don't, she'll bleed you dry and then drop you when you're broke.
2007-01-23 01:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey pal.....nice to know u found ur self a gold digger....and gold diggers last only as long as they find gold in the mine, after that they dump....
u fool, when now itself u cant handle her wants ..just see how are u going to spend the rest of ur life with a person who loves u for what u can give her and not for what u r............
give the beggar a solid kick and ask her to work and fend for her self.......
2007-01-23 13:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by smile2u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing to her like Himesh Reshamiya and make Love to her like Imran Hashmi.
2007-01-23 01:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ahmed Yar K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ùshes nice and all but it seams you found out that shes spoild and wants all matirilistic stuff .. so tell her that simple meangfull things are better.. and take her to nice restrunts not expensive say its becs you like it and it nice.. dont show her that you know about what shes trying to do.. so dont worry i hope shell understand if not talk to her about it and say love is bigger than that..
2007-01-23 01:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by amyhamad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be doesnt know that ur parents dont giv u money, try to discuss the matter vit her, dont hurt her but tell her politely that u cannot buy them...... if she likes u shel understand u.
2007-01-23 02:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will say you should let her know your condition.then you will know the real her.if she really love you she will stay by you,but if she's after your money she will cahnge totally.Pls tell and i hope she will understand.
2007-01-23 02:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by dejjy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋