Depressed in the sense of hopelessness in your life, everthing seems to go wrong, suicidal thinking, married to the wrong guy ( whose habit is laziness, drinking, fornication, no income given to the wife, but treatens the wife, if she wants to leave him, etc.
2007-01-22 17:27:32 · 7 answers · asked by JG 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
It sounds like you need to get away - far away - from this husband of yours. And if he's really threatening you, you need to let the authorities know about it. Especially since, the way you worded it, it sounds like he is being quite abusive.
It sounds like your bout of depression is coming from circumstance, and you need to get away from it to bring your life back to the way it was.
If you have ever actually been diagnosed with depression, however, you need to seek psychiatric help. Even if you've defeated depression before. I was queen of choking down my depression for nine years, and now it's rearing its ugly head in debilitating, bed-ridden nast.
All in all, you need to help yourself get help, wether it's getting away from your husband or getting yourself professional help. Or both.
2007-01-22 17:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by tylinaweenabobina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please know that if this man you call your husband is causing all this trouble in your life, he is causing you no good! Gather close friends and talk this thru, then get the guts to leave this man! He's no good for you! He may have been a different man when you married him but people definitley change over time. If you can, also try talking to your husband about your feelings, and see if he is willing to change any of his bad habits. I'm not religious at all, so I don't believe in turning yourself over to a "god" to help solve your problems, I believe in self-reliance. But I know religion does work for many people, and if this is also something youre interested in, try attending a church group who can support you thru this hard time; spending more time outside your marriage with friends can help develop yourself on your own to stand on your own without this man who seems to be really bringing you down! Best of luck!
2007-01-23 02:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I would consult an professional that can give me good advice on how to handle my situation and leave my husband without confrontation. Then I would stay with the professional and get help on your personality and soul. THERE IS NO MAN OUT THERE WORTH KILLING YOURSELF OVER! PERIOD! Now, get the right guidance for you and forget him, things will turn about and you will live a happy life, just give yourself time. God Bless Your Soul and don't be afraid of leaving, you can find shelter with protection if you truly want it. Go Now! It is never too late to start over. NEVER!
2007-01-23 01:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by doris_38133 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...well I don't do fornication and marriage or drinking...but I think the best solution is religion but if you are non religious then probably talking to other friends with the same problems.
2007-01-23 01:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best solution is lose yourself in some music that you can relate to, and then talk to someone you know that can help make you feel better.
2007-01-23 01:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to fix those problems. why are u gonna depressed over that husband? hes not worth it. leave him!!! if you rly do need help, then go to therapy. just dont take medication cause it will mess u up
2007-01-23 01:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by kyah 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She needs to get out of there....there are organizations that will help her and protect her.
2007-01-23 01:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋