Ever since my older brother move back into my mom's house with his wife my life change a lot. This is when I was a freshman in high school and now I'm in college. Well, like I said, ever since they move in my life change and I'm always depressed. Well, there was always ...always drama in the house everyday and that's no lie. Either my brother beats his wife up in front of the family or my parents or my brother gets into an argument or me and my brother. Now he's like 22 and I was like 16 back than. NOTE( My brother is on cocaine, don't work, no bills, sells drugs and my parents knew about it but didn't really do something about it cause they care for the little kids. Well, my positive attitude change and everything was negative from there on. I'm still depress and I'm not really focus in my education because with all the drama in my last 4 years of life I still find it hard for me to not depress. Someone help me out cause I'm depress and lose and don't know how to get back on my positive
2007-01-22 16:45:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you need to let your parents know how you feel about what going
on. if not then maybe you need move out and find some where
to stayl others member of the family friends. etc you need not'let]this become a problem that will cause you to let your education
fail. you deserve to be happy and may be it time to let them solve
the problem. it not your place to help them since they dont want'
the help. get your positive thought back. time to cut loose all
the negative. and let your light shine once again.
2007-01-22 16:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about your situation. It is up to you to make the positive changes in your life. Has your family tried to get any help, and if not than have you? If not then find someone you can talk to and trust. Try to make the bad situations into good ones. If the family has tried to have help and nothing has changed, then distance yourself from them, it is not your fault they are acting like that, and they may realize one day that they dont have anyone bc of ther behavior and they may change. My brother did and we now have a very close relationship. You will always be there for your family, but you may be the one that shows them they can do it on thier own. Go on with your life and make good of what you have. Dont look back, move forward.
2007-01-23 01:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by 2bv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!! I went throug a lot since I was 6 yrs. No one even cared about my grades or me.... As i grew older I decided to move out.. I didn't get the chance to graduate because I had no support in any way but still got my G.E.D. I started working since I was 14 full time and look just because I always put an excuse that no one supported me or I had to much drama in my life im were im at. I married to get away from problems, divorced and left with a child and still no one cared. My point is if you dont start caring for yourself and for YOUR Future Now, no one else will... Its hard but not impossible. I wished someone would of encouraged me before. I dont want to get all spiritual but the only person that cares is GOD. He loves us all and wants us to succeed in life. You can do it!!! Leave all your worries to Him... The key to success in life is PRAYER!!!! Remember that u have power of will... Only u can fight for your future...LOVE yourself and move out!!!!!! You can only pray for your brother and I will too!!!!!!
2007-01-23 01:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by lauris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ur certainly on the right track as far as ur concern with being focused if ur parents were really concerned with ur nephews and nieces they would have filed for custody of the younger children because they are not being raised in a healthy invironment and they are being mentally damaged it is ur parents that have to make the first step in getting this situation resolved. they have to give ur brother an ultimatum to get his life together for his family. if not then they need to take action and get custody of the kids until he can better himself i know u probably dont want to get the police involved but it may be for the better my take on things is that ur parents are afraid of ur brother and not sure what hes capable of. negative begets negative so even when the chips are down u have to maintain a positive outlook on things. things will get better but someone has to make the first move. maybe this is something that u should bring to ur parents attention as far as the custody is concerned and if things get really out of hand take it upon urself to do something about it call the police urself but if thats not in ur nature i know its hard but maybe u should look into finding ur own place. i feel for u and what u and ur family is going thru but keep ur head up and stay strong if ur a religious man keep ur faith in god for he is always on ur side even when at times we think he isnt. good luck and god bless
2007-01-23 01:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out partner. It is time you leave the nest. Staying home is depressing in that environment.
Get your girlfriend to share the expense of an apartment.
2007-01-23 01:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, you graduated college in 7 minutes. In your latest lie/question, you've graduated and you can't find a job, but 7 minutes earlier in this question you're still in college! But, your spelling is still 1st grade level. Too bad that didn't change too, huh?
2007-01-23 00:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to get out on your own. Get a job, stay in school get a place of your own. Thats probably the only way your gonna save yourself.
2007-01-23 02:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by Chicago Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋