2007-01-22 16:41:04 · 26 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They only are sweet and kind before sex, and then afterwards throw you to the curb.
They don't introduce you in public to their friends and family.
They only call you or want to be with you to have sex and that is it.
You never have deep, meaningful conversations and you don't feel their love.
They don't hug/kiss you...just sex.
It should be pretty obvious. If you want to know for sure, quit putting out. With-hold sex and see how long they stay around.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 16:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are plenty of signs trust me. I know! Well i actually had a fling wit a guy but there was only kissing! HE actually told me that i couldnt be his girlfriend unless i had sex with him. And yea like a dumbass I still continued to kiss him. Well i knew all he wanted was sex because all he ever talk about was SEX! And he would always try to touch me everywhere. Also if he lies to u alot thats another sign.
2007-01-23 00:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, let's see..everytime you are together you end up having sex? You don't really spend time together other than that. You don't really talk on the phone or spend any real time together. He doesn't want to commit to anyone. If you are letting some guy use you for sex then I feel bad for you. You need to lose the guy and find someone else.
2007-01-23 00:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know it depends on the guy.
I see people are saying that if he doesn't take you out or if he doesn't introduce you to his friends or family, that's a sign. While generally this is true, but not always. There are some men who have this playa' thing down to a science. They will make you think they care by taking you out or giving compliments, but they only want sex.
2007-01-23 00:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are guys are together, all he wants to do is have sex, all he talks about is sex and you don't just hang out for fun or conversation. If you're not getting to know each other on a personal, private and deeper level, then he's just using you.
2007-01-23 00:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by artutina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when that's all you do & you don't go out you never meet any of his friends or family and that's all he craves and whenever he sees you it's just sex sex sex. you can't go to his house or be in yours without him wanting sex. enough is enough and you just have to use you're common since
if you think he's using you then most likey he is. stop having sex and she if he stays around that's all.
2007-01-23 00:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having it with someone with out a long loving caring relationship its just sex baby!
so dont trip!
2007-01-23 00:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by sapboi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. They never want to go out on a "real" date, meaning they just want to get the sex, and usually leave once they are satisfied. Do you go out to dinner? A movie? Hang out together? If you answered no, then you are probably getting used. Do you get late night "booty" calls?? If you answered yes, you are getting used.................good luck......
2007-01-23 00:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Terry B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time u see him is when he wants a root.
You don't know any of his friends.
You've never met his parents.
When he se's u with clothes on he thinks u look weird. (i'm kidding)
There's heaps of sighns ok, if he was using u for sex you would know about it.
2007-01-23 00:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They only want sex with you. They don't call you, hang out, spend any other time with you. They avoid you at certain times, lie or make excuses.
2007-01-23 00:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋