ok...where do i begin....*sigh*...ok i met this girl at my school and she got a niccce body, she slim, got them thighs...racks....ok so this girl she likes me and i like her body.....i told her i only want to be your friend...her "buddy" and she is ok with that. but the thing is im scared she might have some kinda sexual disease but i dont want to ask her and be like "so u have HIV? crabs?? herpes??....i know this sounds really rude but how can i ask her??? please tell me how i can ask....
2007-01-22 16:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
use a condom
2007-01-22 16:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by mike h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, it is very normal to ask the person if you can ask a personal question. Then strait out ask have you had and infections or diseases. You can start off by saying well I don't have any kind of diseases or anything and I was wondering if you have. Also, do not have unprotected sex, if you do not know her well, and she was hiv positive and lying to you, how would you know. No glove no love. Once you get to know her ask her if she will take you to her family Dr. and ask her if you can ask him any questions you want. It is not rude, it is being safe. Take care Heather
2007-01-31 00:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just like her body .Do you want to have sex with her ?If not it is not none of your business if she has whatever.You only need to be worried with that if you liked her and want to have sex with her.By the way have you ever heard of protection no sex without it.Now to the way you would ask her is like this.Have a talk and after a minute talk about ,how you read about something in a book and you feel it was nasty and say something like I never had a sexual disease and I would be messed up if I ever found out somebody gave me one and ask how she feel about that then ask has it ever happened to her.That is a nice way and that is the way I alway find out about the person I'm messin with and we just start to talk about it.It is always a good way and a bad way to do anything.GOOD LUCK and I hope this help you.
2007-01-30 21:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by otess a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think asking straight out is the best way! Be like, hey girl I work real hard at keeping it mmm mmm good, so I gotta know what Im dealing with here ! Its a fair question, more people should ask!
2007-01-23 00:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur health is more important than anythng....if she has something she should let u know before u do anything together....go up to her when u are alone and ask her if she has any type of sexual disease....but before make sure if she has even slept with anyone because rumors n stuff aren't always true if she is really ur friend she'll tell u the truth
2007-01-23 00:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by lalgita12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her friends cause or somebody that can't keep a secret cause for sure they'll know if it's something like STD's everyone finds out so there has to be people that know about her.
2007-01-23 00:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing you just wanna be her BUDDY and yet you wanna know all about her diseases. This isnt fair you shouldnt do this it clearly indicates that you are attracted to her body and you wanna have S[-X with her and thats it.
\ This aint called Friendship.
Be her Friend, get to know her and she has any problems she would share them with you and than proceed further.
OTHERWISE JUST PUT A CONDOM AND HAVE S[-X AND BYE BYE.
Choice is yours!
2007-01-23 00:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is too easy... way too easy. You're buddies and you're already talking about putting a casserole in the oven.
2007-01-23 00:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like her body? what? what make you think she might have std,i mean it good to know,and don't be afraid to ask,but don't be rude about.i think after a few conversation first,i don't think it should be ask up front.
2007-01-23 00:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by hanagal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just play the question game. u ech ask question about each other until u two have no more. good luck
2007-01-23 00:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me hit it, i have all of them and ill just have another outbreak of whatever she has and ill tell you what it is if any.....and if none at all, well she'll have the gonoherpesyphiaids when im done with her.
2007-01-31 00:18:13 · answer #11 · answered by Paulie Walnuts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋