There's a girl that I used to work with that I have a major crush on, and now she works somewhere else, and I've been dying to go there and ask her out, but I'm SO SHY it's killing me, and I don't know what to do to ask her! Please help!
2007-01-22 16:27:24 · 8 answers · asked by tekkodbz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know her number then call her because the way you typed those words makes me think that you will pass out trying to ask her out in person. If you don't know her phone number than give her a letter telling her your feelings then ask her out at the end of the letter. Don't just send a letter that says "would you go out with me". Good Luck. Try to calm down a little. You'll do fine.
Good Luck!!
2007-01-22 16:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by blackshadowdragon_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i can start by asking how old you both are? Over age its a easy one. ask her out to dinner then someplace to shoot some pool or darts. Hate to say it but a couple of drinks is the best way to overcome the shyness. Just dont get too drunk. Under age.. try to do something that will be just you and her. Make up something about having to go to the mall to get a shirt. Ask her to come along because your not sure which one would look better. Something along those lines. Did i mention how much easier it is if your over age and can just go to a bar? LOL Good luck and just do it. Otherwise you will kick yourself for a long time if you at least never found out what she would have said. It sounds stupid but get it into your head that she should be going out with you. I used to be very shy, and still am to a point, but if you can build a bit more self confidence it will go a long way. With her and future relashionships. hope this helps a little
2007-01-23 00:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by hlind28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be confident in your self and just go to her work and strike up a casual conversation and let the actual "asking out" just fall into place. I dont think you would be so nervous if you wouldnt put such pressure on yourself with "asking her out" . just talk with her and get to know her.
2007-01-23 00:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, figure out how you will approach her and ask her out.
Second, figure out what will happen if she says no.
Continue to think about your approach to her so your confidence increases, while considering that if she says no it won't impact where you are now, so your fear decreases.
Eventually, it will become obvious that you can do it, then all you have to do is go and be brave for 10 seconds. ;-)
2007-01-23 00:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Me, a name I call myself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you need to do is get rid of being shy, no reason to be shy.... people like you and you shouldnt be scared of anything life brings....its real easy, blurt it out.... say "hey, would you like to go out sometime?" if she says no then move on to someone better
women usually like guys who are a little agressive in that area, so ask her out, you have nothing to lose
2007-01-23 00:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, it will eat at you more if you never know than if she says no and if she does say no, you can move on because you won't have to see her at work. If she says yes, that would be swell.
2007-01-23 00:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no boy in the holl world is shy just go ask her nicely and gentle
2007-01-23 00:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it and i promise you will be happy if she say no just move on i know it is very hard but just do it dude
2007-01-23 00:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by sniper 2.0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋