and im not use to that. its not that im insecure but im just not use to seeing my man looking and checking out other women in my presense. ive talked to him about it and he still does it. it makes me uncomfortable. cuz several times the women he be looking at notices him with me and then they look at me as if wondering what im thinking about that situation. plz help. what do i do?
2007-01-22 16:26:16 · 13 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's very disrespectful of him to do that in your presence. Men & women always tempt to look at attractive opposite sex but to do in the presence of their lovers is totally disrespectful and unacceptable.
I, my self, am not going to lie. I do look at attractive girls when I'm with my friends only. But when I go out with my girlfriend, I give her a full undivided attention & my eyes are only locked into her eyes as her to mine.
Lose him, if he continues to disrespect you like that, chances are, he's going to cheat on you.
Take care!
2007-01-22 16:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's the type who's more interested in the body than anything else. I don't know, but I would never date someone like that. I'd want someone who's for real, and doesn't have breasts/azz at the forefront of his mind 100% of the time. Sounds like you've got yourself more of a player, and not so much a not a long-term personal quality/commitment kind of guy... but I really don't know him. I recommend thinking carefully about the road ahead, and making sure you're with the right person who can take you into old age with a personal kind of love.
2007-01-23 00:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find "Mr Right" he will make you feel like the only women of the face of the Earth. If he's checking out other girls in your presents, then obviously he's not doing a good job of making you feel that way.
He might make a good friend, but move on romantically with someone else!
2007-01-23 00:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by clickityclack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you and he still does it then he doesnt respect you. He might just be using you as a second best and still shopping around for another.
Some women prefer to go for guys who are already taken, like a prize.
2007-01-23 00:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Richie.Rich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. start looking at other men. be confident, u r not that bad.
2. comment loudly at the other man's physiques.
3. moved on, he's not worth it.
he's not treasuring you, taking you for granted.
2007-01-23 00:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking at guys in front of him and commenting on how hot they are.
He won't like it. Tell him you'll stop if he will.
2007-01-23 00:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start checking out the men when he is with you.
2007-01-23 00:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how much it bothers you. Make sure he knows you are quite serious. If he doesn't care then get rid of him.
2007-01-23 00:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some strawberry flavored condoms, go to his house, have a good time
2007-01-23 00:30:52 · answer #9 · answered by The Gildclam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with starr - and be blatently obvious about it. guys are so dense sometimes. he prob doesn't really notice he's doing it.
2007-01-23 00:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by how empty of me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋