Basically, I am a good guy. I am pretty handsome, stable, have a good job and a nice truck. I have a number of friends, male and female.
Once in a while, I go out with a bad attitude. I dont pick fights, but have been involved in a few, not many. When I am rude, and obnoxious, even insulting to some women, I get alot of phone numbers and women want to take me home.
Can you ladies answer me that?
(guys, I am not interested in your opinion, not this time)
2007-01-22 16:22:02 · 14 answers · asked by Richie.Rich 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, women who are attracted to "bad boys" lack of self-esteem, thrive for attention, or are psychologically tormented.
I, for myself, look for someone I can have intellectual stimulation.
I agree with brp_13, Mary Lou, Eva C, and atiana.
2007-01-24 16:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sabine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why that is! it seems like some girls are really out there looking for a guy who's mean and offensive. but that's never the kind of guy they want to spend their lives with.
you sound like you're a sweetheart for real, you're just putting on this bad boy attitude because it attracts some females. but trust me, it doesn't attract the right kind!
the best advice that I can give you, is be yourself. you don't need to be like all the so-called bad boys. personally, I don't like the bad boy type. I think they're a dime a dozen, and most of them are jerks, and I wouldn't want to be with one of them. I've always been attracted to the guys with good hearts that are sweet and make you feel special. that's the kind of guy that a girl wants to be with. have you ever watched the movie called 8 seconds? if you have, then you know the nice guy gets the girl, and if you haven't watched it, I highly recommend that you do, it will help you understand what's really important and what kind of attitude nice girls look for in a guy. and I promise, you can trust me on this one!
Take Care, and Stay a Sweetheart!
2007-01-22 16:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like the bad boys for a fling - the bar's not a great place to find a girl looking for a long term relationship - there are some, but perhaps you seem more self confident when you try to be 'bad-a**', women like confidence - approaching arrogance, but not quite. and some women see a challenge. some women might want to change you and see the sensitive man they coaxed out of you. some are just at the bar to find a guy to go home with. try for a happy medium. ps - if you insult me at the bar, i will insult you back! so don't be a jacka** and you'll find a nice girl - if that's what you want!
2007-01-22 16:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by how empty of me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys are alright for a little fling, they are dangerous, and mysterious, and just sexy as hell. but not good for a serious relationship. what all women want is a man that will treat them like a woman, not some piece of flesh to use up and then run out the door, and that is all that a real bad boy does cause they don't have feelings. don't pretend to be a bad boy. you should never try to be something that your not cause it will definitely not get you what your looking for. unless you are looking for a quick easy lay, then by all means pretend away. but to answer your question no bad boys are not even close to being better than a good man.
2007-01-22 16:39:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, hence the word bad.
In this day of metrosexuals and lots more open male homosexuality, I think what these ladies are atttracted to is the show of masculinity. But if these women are wanting to get with you after you have acted a jerk, they honest truth is that they may not be the stable lady you deserve.
2007-01-22 16:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like Alpha males, that is why they want to hook up with you. Agressive behavior is a big primal turn on. The bad news is that the rude behavior that they initially find appealing becomes very unappealing when it is directed at them. Believe me, every time my guy has made a nasty comment to me, I've never forgotten it.
2007-01-22 16:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by nicegirl6720 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, I think you're wrong. It's not necessarily the bad boys we like. They all seem to have one thing in common though. They are confident. Not conceded, just sure of who they are. To me, that is the most attractive thing in a man. And I was lucky enough to find one who is a "good guy" but is very confident and knows exactly who he is.
2007-01-22 16:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, normally, when I see someone like that, I would think that they seem really bold to stand up for themselves. If you insulted them and they still liked you, then I'm just guessing that somehow, in our teen or young adult years, we all are drawn to bold people. Then, later, when we look back, we decide that we were all big idiots who couldn't tell the good from the bad...
2007-01-22 16:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
solid boy exterior undesirable boy interior. Wait do you propose exterior like the playground and interior the dwelling house or by using coronary heart ??? yet whichever unwell circulate with solid boy exterior and undesirable boy interior.
2016-12-12 18:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys are the best.
You have to be a bad boy in bed, then you are SSSSsoooooo good
2007-01-24 16:27:24 · answer #10 · answered by sessy.btch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋