hi guys,
this is the extended question of my previous question. i had break up with my ex girlfriend. We had 2 yrs relationship. she promised me to marry me but when she went for holidays at her country she married straightaway to her ex boyfriend.
thats the matter past 2 months. i was in terrible stage but anyhow got over it. and now i m on my way to success.
she has come back now after getting married and she works at the same place tht i do.
HOW SHOULD I REACT OR BEHAVE WHEN SHE WORKS WITH ME? I WANNA BEHAVE MATURELY AND REALLY AS A WINNER.
PLZ TELL ME
2007-01-22 16:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by samirpurohit2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself that all you can do, it will be akward at first but
you can do it, it been some time so just say hi if possible and
then move on. dont let her see you sweat keep thing simple.
2007-01-22 16:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just said it yourself...behave maturely and professionally. You don't have to call her, take her out and so forth. She is a married woman...you failed to say if she was pursuing you to get "re acquainted"...if so...don't. In work relationships, most of the time, end badly, even nasty. If she bothers you at work about this then take it to your supervisor. Other than that, all I can say is to take in the experience and do the best you can. Again, you said it, just be mature and professional...that is all you need to be. Good luck.
2007-01-23 00:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet it still hurts but it will hurt even more if she knows that it had hurt or made you mad in any way because she might point it out and may even say sry and we dont want that cause that will make it akward. so don't go past the usual hi and don't ignore her or do anything outside of work if she suggests it(i really don't know situation so if some of these are off then we shouldnt use them) dont frown or smile act like your mind is somewhere else not the depressed kind tho
Wish you good luck pal
2007-01-23 00:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Martin SCholserZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RElax and calm down, just be yourself and don't pretend that you are a winner. BE A WINNER. Just be yourself and work normally, don't think anything else, just work normally. Smile at her if you wish but calm down. Otherwise you'll be a loser if you don't stay put. Let her go. And look forward for a brighter future. Think about yourself and not her. Ok?!!!
2007-01-23 00:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Piper A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough decision on your part. I would probably curse her out but, im not mature. So i would say just talk to her when necessary and be polite and respectful.
2007-01-23 00:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by yungpuller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like your little sister.
Also go make out with 10 other girls at minimum.
You probably need to learn how to spark attraction first, and then go make out with ten other girls, not in front of her or anything like that, but do it for yourself. You will feel great and like a winner, and have a new skill.
2007-01-23 00:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Akshun 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like a man and move on.
2007-01-23 00:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be her superior and act above her in a professional manner!
2007-01-23 00:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by That Guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would treat her like she was a casual acquaintance, not rude or nice, just indifferent.
2007-01-23 00:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Act like you don't know her... anything else would be really awkward...
2007-01-23 00:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Alexandra 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋