I've known this girl for a couple years, and we're growing to be friends, but I also feel that there is romantic interest on both our parts. So I'm ready to ask her permission to take her out to dinner, but I wasn't sure if I should do it over the phone (which I could do a lot sooner), or in person which would take several more days. Furthermore, if I attempt to do it in person, should I try to get her completely alone, or just slightly away from the crowd?
2007-01-22 16:11:46 · 12 answers · asked by unclekettch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being that you are just starting out for more "romantic interests" , I would absolutely do it in person and just away from the crowd. This does more for both of you and your mental state of mind when you can look at each other to make plans. This may help spark more "romantic vibes" the night you ask her as well as ALL THE TIME before your actual date.
2007-01-22 16:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by clickityclack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK I prefer in person. But it depends on the person. Do what ever makes you feel comfortable. If you do ask her in person get her alone if she is with her friends. That way you won't have to deal with the screaming if one of her friends over heard. If she is just in a crowd that doesn't really know her then just get her a good distance where those people won't but in your business. Just relax and be yourself. Good Luck!!
2007-01-22 16:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by blackshadowdragon_666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Face to face or by phone, definitely not on facebook. 2. Yes, spontaneously. I'd find it pretty cute if a guy just walked up to me in the hallway and asked me out, random and cute, haha. 3. Because it's more personal than on facebook, text, etc.
2016-05-23 23:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it when time allows. Like if you're having a cinversatiion and it opens up to somethiing like that then go for it... But I would personally prefer to be asked in person. If you're not really close then don;t do it when you're all alone cause if she says no it's kind of awkward. But just keep feeling things out and if it seems right GO FOR IT!
2007-01-22 16:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like being asked out by phone or in person as long as we are kind of alone when I'm asked out. I don't really like it if a guy asks me out in front of lots of people because I am kind of shy. I think it would be easiest to call her and ask her out because then you will have time to talk about where to go for the first date. I hope it works out for you, good luck!
2007-01-22 16:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by jamie kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A first date should always be asked in person, but since you already know her well, just getting her out of the crowd would be ok.
2007-01-22 16:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to ask someone out is in person. If you do it by phone she might think you don't have any guts. well if you have to wait a few more day its worth it if she says yes . there more of a chance the she will say yes in person than in the phone. well good luck
2007-01-22 16:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by here to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for you i think it's better in person because over the phone you don't really see their reaction or over the net and mostly in person you get a better answer then any other way. plus it just seems cheesy any other way. unless it was an airplane or you send them alot alot alot of flowers.
2007-01-22 16:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by twan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person - definitely - and you can get her away from the crowd.
2007-01-22 16:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In person when you're alone with her and you've been having a good time together.
2007-01-22 16:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by greengirl637 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋