he broke up with me a month ago. He had real trouble balancing everything in his life. We are long distance, which requires him to share his time between me and his family, friends. It's his last semester in college and i just found out he's on probation and probably will have to graduate in august instead of may. he's really depressed about this. i always thought he'd be back b/c he's kinda geeky, very shy, doesnt have any female friends. He once told me if we broke up he's not gonna have a gf for 2 or 3 years. i guess he wants to figure out his life first before he actually has the ability to handle a relationship. I thought maybe 2 or 3 months after the breakup he's gonna want me back b/c of the reason above. But now he's having so much trouble at school (his dad is even going to his school tomorrow to talk to the dean)i dont think he has time/mood to think about us. so what do u think?do u think he'll be back?
I'm the only girl he's been with and he was crazy about me inthe past
2007-01-22 16:04:31 · 6 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
right now he has more things on his plate then you and him getting back together, you need to leave him along and let him
get his act together in school. rignt now that more important
since you and he are not together any way.
2007-01-22 16:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he doesn't have much time to balance his life. You also mentioned that school is troubling him right now. Doesn't seem like he can handle much more on his plate right about now. Though he may still care for you, with all that's on his plate, it may be a good idea to just let him get himself together. Remember: if you love something, set it free; if it comes back, love and cherish it forever.
2007-01-23 00:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time to figure out his life and just let him know your there for him if he needs someone to talk to. Don't pressure him but let him know you would like to continue to be part of his life. When he gets to a better place in life and he isn't so overwhelmed then give him the opportunity to be your boyfriend again. In the meantime maybe you should take this time to enjoy being young. Be with your friends and family. But overall just be patient.
2007-01-23 00:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by p_eulb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past and it sounds like he has bigger things to worry about at the moment, otherwise he has wasted years at college with no end result. Move on with your own life don't wait for something you think will happen,
2007-01-23 00:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has too much to worry about. don't detract him from the school thing or he will never forgive you.
2007-01-23 00:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by pikachu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋