my crushes always turn into 'likes", I just want to get a few tips on beating insecurities...please no smart/dumb azz answers.
2007-01-22 16:01:50 · 9 answers · asked by Ediddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
think, (very true): most of the people you talk to are secretly just as insecure as you.
2007-01-22 16:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your insecurity is, so...if you're feeling insecure, that means you have some serious soul searching to do before you get with anyone. If you are insecure, these insecurities will always be there no matter who you are with. The first step is to be completely honest with yourself. Look into your past relationships with your parents, siblings, other family members, school friends, work mates, etc. and see if you find a pattern. We are all creatures of habit, so trust me: your problem is there. You simply need to find it. And when you do, then and only then can you fix it.
2007-01-23 00:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the biggest key is the realization that its not insecurities with women, its insecurities in yourself. When you take a hard look at yourself you will be able to identify the reason for why you feel this way and its causes. If you want to change it your the only one that can find all the reasons for being the way you are. All that is left then is to fix the problem after you identify it. Only you can accomplish this.
-NmD!
2007-01-23 00:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya man...every girl i ever have a crush on ends up dating some crackhead and tells me she just wants to be friends. That's why i will be single for the rest of my life.
2007-01-23 00:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a human being just as u are. Just be urself. I like people who r natural and dont pretend to be something that they r not.
2007-01-23 00:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by mermaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to overcome your insecurities. This will always help, it is alwys noce to remeber EVERYONE has insecurites so try to over come yours before them and they will automatically be impressed
2007-01-23 00:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by loverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will feel more secured with one woman than many.
2007-01-23 00:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many fish in the sea
2007-01-23 00:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take risks...
2007-01-23 00:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋