Ok. This guy i met-really goodlooking-likes me. He asked me out and my parents wanted to meet him. They-of course-said no...but i wanted him. He would call me ( sumtimes in the middle of school) just to tell me he luvs me. Here's the reason y my p's sed no:
1.) hes been in jail 3 times. 2.) he drinks. 3.) his ex is pregnant. 4.) he (4 times) slapped me cross the face. 5.) he has a very voilent history (beatings,fights etc.) but i still luv him-is that wrong even though he says he luvs me mor than n e thing?
Also(i know its long), hes hit my friend and had a HUGE fight w/ my parents just for cussing out my mom,and got me high-w/ a needle and that stuff....
should i not go out w/ him?
2007-01-22 15:47:37 · 13 answers · asked by Boingo&Fuzzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you stupid! Yes you are... so decide right now if you want to end up 1.) dead, 2.) incredibly sad 3.) pregnant with a stupid dad
4.) the laughing stock of the town or even 5.) he might make you do something stupid and get your little naive a* * to jail!
Get away from him Now! Yes Right NOW! Have your dad beat the sh*t out of him too!
2007-01-22 15:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it is very simple, he is absolutely wrong for you. Period. I know that is not what you want to hear, but your parents are right and they are only looking out for your best interest. It is obvious that he is a violent type and unless he comes to terms with this and gets some help then that behavior will only continue leaving you in much pain. However, if you chose to go out this jerk then you will have to take the responsiblity for what happens when he hurts you both physically and emotionally. It would be best to move on and find someone else. I am sure it will be difficult, but it will in the long run be the best thing you can do.
2007-01-23 03:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by divingonthemuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go out with him, you'll be next in line for a beating. Abusers seldom know they're doing anything wrong. To them it's just the way they handle conflict. They do not know where the boundaries are and can't learn to change because they were probably abused themselves. Find another guy.
2007-01-22 23:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should run away as fast as you can. He's got one girl knocked up with his kid. You wanna be the next one he knocks up and beats ?? You deserve better then that. I mean he disrespected your mom and caused a rifted there. This guy is just gonna get you pregnant and leave ya...or beat you until your almost dead. Do you want that ??
2007-01-22 23:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you freaking kidding me? If you can't see the red flags, then someone needs to slap some sense into you. Your aren't married to him so you have a way out, why would you want a guy like that if you aren't tied down?
2007-01-22 23:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he has some serious issues that he need to work on, and you need to leave him along, this kind of behavior will only get
worst not better. move on;no offensive but if you are so goodlooking, then why are you with looser, i would think they
would be knocking down the door for you.
2007-01-23 00:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say do not go out with him...he is too much it doesn't matter how he looks even if he looks like BRAD PITT he hit you and diss-respect you ...Find someone who will treat you like a princess not like slave...good luck
2007-01-23 00:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by D_na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY, he is too violent. I agree with your parents. if you go out with him, your gonna mess up yours and your parents life.
2007-01-23 00:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I have to agree with your parents on this one.
2007-01-22 23:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much you want to mess up your life - because you and him are going to end up messy.
2007-01-22 23:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by robsta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋