Okay, my crush and i have been looking (not touching) for a while now. I finally asked him if he wanted to go to sisters b-day bash, and he accepted. My friends want to ask him out for me at my sister's b-day. Should I let them? Or should he do it??
2007-01-22 15:40:54 · 18 answers · asked by hmw95 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never let anyone ask a person to go out with you for you. There should be no middle man, or third party. If you are really that interested in him, and he's interested in you, but has yet to make a move, ask him yourself. Maybe there's a reason why he's decided to wait before asking you. Whatever the reason, you will only know if YOU ask him yourself.
2007-01-22 15:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Honesty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COME ON!! NEVER LET YOUR FRIENDS BE THE MIDDLE MAN! You like him talk to him more when your around him be his friend first but act a little more flirtatious than a regular friend would, do that only if you can tell he likes you too. Things will take its course, and if its meant to be, I'll happen.
2007-01-22 23:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait and let him do it. From my experiences some guys don't like when a girl's friends ask them out for her. They rather the girl ask them herself. When your friends do it for you it kinda shows the guy that your shy and not assertive enough.
2007-01-23 00:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by cutet88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldn't have your Friends do your dirty work, at most I think you should just let them be around and help you bring up the conversation of going to the movies or out to eat or something but YOU should be the one to ask him to go with you.
2007-01-22 23:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by miami_gurl88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this relationship should be between you and your crush. if you can't communicate now, you will probable have communication issues all along and that could lead to a bad relationship. if your crush is shy, you make the move and ask him.
2007-01-23 06:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sam E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're over 18.. ask yourself.. you're an adult, otherwise if you're still 16 or 17 or shy, I guess friends asking for you is probably a start..
2007-01-22 23:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let your friends do it. either ask him yourself or wait till he ask. i used to hate when a girls friends would do that even if i liked the girl because i felt like i was put on the spot and i wasnt even sure if that was really what the girl wanted or just her friends.
2007-01-22 23:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya i think watz wrong in that, if he wants to then there is no problem in that, but you need to undertand that Change is the Law of World and you need to alwayz Appreciate the Change and accept it as it is..
SMR..
2007-01-22 23:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by SirfMayuR.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
months hoped ask him what is wrong with asking someone well i asked me bf out and we have been happy for 9 months
hope this info does you good
2007-01-22 23:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let them cause it better to tell the person that you like them, but if you dont tell it get annoying cause u want to tell them but then u dont so i think you should just let ur friends tell him
2007-01-22 23:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋