I find myself dating and sleeping with gorgeous , kind , alround great girls . I like to think I respect them as well . but I find myself time and time again at whore houses , why is it that i can not just be content with these great girls I met outside of the knock shop
2007-01-22 15:33:29 · 10 answers · asked by g.reef 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope you use protection. Don't men go to prostitutes as the sex is completely uncomplicated - no call backs, no expectations? You can ask for anything and a paid girl will do most stuff for the right price?
So I'm only guessing here but do you have a problem with commitment? Casual sex requires a certain level of courtship - even if it is buying only a few drinks. You go to the brothel because you can walk in order up and walk out. Kinda like McDonald's for your sex life. You need to evaluate if you want that sort of sex or you want the positives of a more committed liaison? I don't mean kids and living together I mean breakfast in bed on a Sunday - walking, talking. Do you actually like women as people? sometimes I think men in our society concentrate on the booty call and not on the person attached. You can pay a working girl to listen to your problems but at the end of the day you know you had to pay her. A girlfriend is more than sex. A decent girl will listen and support you in your hopes and dreams. You plan together. So maybe you need to think about what you value . If you met someone you truly value and you have self discipline you should be able to cope with just one women. As it's not just the sex you are with her for it's all the other stuff which you can't buy.
Still some of this I'm just guessing cause I'm not a man. I know the things I value about my partner is his patience, his sense of humour, his company. Sex is a positive thing in our lives but it's not the only thing. Good luck as I really still don't understand why men frequent brothels - I've just had a guess.
2007-01-22 15:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by mickylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you unnable to have a committed relationship and you just want to get to the sex and then get up and leave. There's more to life then whore houses. You obviously have some trauma in your past and you haven't identified it. It's not normal to visit whore houses, but if sex is really what you're all about then maybe you should pursue a career in porn. Atleast in that case you be the one getting paid for it....
2007-01-22 15:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe You just haven't found the right one for you yet that you are content with.I don't think your a whore as your single not married I take it.Although what your doing is not right by any means.Maybe you should seek some professional.(I'm not saying that to be mean).Good Luck!
2007-01-22 15:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably like what they do for you because the good girls won't so you just want a little taste of bad. A little case of good vs. bad
2007-01-22 15:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz the whores are better in bed than the good girls.
2007-01-22 15:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello g.reef,
Because the good girls don't do the stuff that the providers do.
2007-01-22 15:36:56 · answer #6 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mean a whore
2007-01-22 15:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're addicted to giving up the cash.
2007-01-22 16:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you became addicted to whore houses ? maybe
2007-01-22 15:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i must be bored
2007-01-22 15:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋