Ladies, please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If a girl asks me to come to her apartment? What's she thinking?

Question

Hi there,
I am a tutor in a college and there is this girl that was my student last two years and we later became friends. Moreover, she is 2 years older than me. She is 23 and I am 21. We are very close friends. Anything she wants to do, she seeks my advice and she always wants me to visit her at work. She is very attractive and works as a model and I suspect she has a boyfriend because a girl can not be that attractive and be single. She recently moved out of her father's house for no apparent reason and she has been asking me to come and see the house. I am a little bit uncomfortable because even when we are in the public, she makes a lot of bodily contact with me and I don't know if she is just flirting. She also asks me why I am still single and she also asks about my past relationships and if I still call my ex-es. Last week, she asked if I was a virgin after I refused to come over to her house and I do not know what she means. Please answer! LADIES ONLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

hey i'm on my fiances account but heres the deal watch her with other people does she touch you more does she look you in the eyes watch her body lingo it determines sex from a movie
just go and see where it takes you i would never have gotten engaged if i didn't take any risks
sarah

Answer 2

sounds like she is probably not dating anyone else! women who are beautiful models, etc. can be single too.... also sound like she has been letting you know (via the contact) that she likes you.... or is a big flirt! you ask for "us ladies" to answer? I am going to let you in a BIG secret... that is (or should be) widely known.... we are not pyschic!.... lol.... when I was single and had my own place? I invited guys that I cared for over..... only guys I cared for and only ones I respected and knew I could trust.... I have even asked guys if they were virgins.... cause I wanted to see if they were respectable men who blushed or if they were players! I would never have asked any over if I was in a relationship! and I did not neccassiarly "want" anything more than whatever the night brought.... she might want you to hit on her.... or she might want her friend she cares for and respects to come look at her place... her first... the only she has had?! how about if you look at it as that... or better yet? do you have feelings for her? if so? why not ask her if she is in a relationship, or if she would like to go out? and if she is negative? let her know that she has been sending you very mixed signals! and how that makes you feel!!

Answer 3

She obviously finds you attractive. Seems to me she doesn't know any other way to express herself than to behave the way she has. The physical contact is just a way of making you attracted to her. The questioning is so she knows you're available and that you are not attached. This kinda gives her a green light. Why don't you just ask her the same questions she asks you? Can't tell you if she's single or not, cause I don't know her. But, if you ask her yourself, maybe you'll get a little more insight on her before you make a move.

Answer 4

Obviously, this girl likes and trusts you a lot - perhaps more than a friend. If you feel the same way too, make your move and give yourselves a chance at a relationship. She might just be making it easier for you to express your feelings for her. But if you don't feel the same way, there is no harm in staying the way you are with her, just be careful not to say or do things that might cause her to misinterpret your real intentions. Above all, do not abuse or take advantage of her. Either way, go ahead and visit her in her apartment.

Answer 5

Ok brother, im a dude but i know a thing or two. Thiz girl iz obviously interested in you man! Everytime you reject her offer to come over, you are making her less and less attracted to you. Take the body language and use ur body to talk back man! by that i mean dont just sit there, interact with her back, touch her, make eye contact, put a smile on her face. Thiz girl wants you and iz giving you the time of day. Take her up on her offer and play it cool. Thiz girl means business, so dont waste anymore time if your not already too late.

Answer 6

I dont know from what you are saying it seems like she might have feelings for you. I would communicate with her. I would also figure out what you feel about her. If you say you are good friends then maybe she sees you as a close friend. Its a tough call but my best advice would be to maybe show more interest in her and see how she reacts. Also I would talk with her about it.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

Why in the world would you ask "LADIES ONLY" ?

That's like asking a Tomato how to grow Tomatos, Tomatos don't know how or why they grow, they just do it naturally, you need to ask a farmer or even better a horticulturalist.

Good luck. Comment if you want some real insight.

Answer 8

It sounds like she could be wanting some fun, or she's having a real good time flirting with you.

You can ask her if she's looking for something to happen with you. Or you can tell her that you'll go over just as friends, as you value your friendship too much. (Unless you want something to happen.) Even then, there's no guarentee that nothing would happen, even if she says that nothing is going to happen.

Answer 9

she might like you lover boy!! She is only interrogating you cz she wants to know whats she messing with to see what type of person you are. Cuz if you liked her you wouldnt be writing this. She is probably waiting for your turn to move in on her. If you think she is attracting why not make the move?

Answer 10

ladies only.......pffffffffffffffffffffffffff ok then.........

well from personal experience in the world of flirtatiousness, this chikkie wants to be naked with you in the baddest way!!!! ha ha, better grow some balls and just do it, unless of course you're a gentleman, then beware, if you do go over to her house, most likely scenario includes her already being half-cut when you get there and it's all a porn film from thereon out.......

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