when i go to talk to her at school i get too nervous to say anythign any advice
2007-01-22 14:52:19 · 19 answers · asked by Makaveli 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just b urslf...smile, flirt...eye contact..b her friend...as u get to kno her time will tell if u like her...then u won't be nervous. call her, give her advice, be a good friend and then ask her out..
2007-01-22 14:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first...don't do the "will you go out with me" thing, it might make it a little awkward. If you can, start up a little converstation to see if she's interested--it can be about something you both might have in common, like school, and after a while you can ask if she's doing anything on friday or after work..whatever. It's even easier if you already know her, so it's not a total stranger just coming up to you. Also, don't make it sound like it's really serious...a first date can be "just as friends" and then you'll decide what to do...or ask here lol
good luk
2007-01-22 23:01:08 · answer #2 · answered by Carlos 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta just throw yourself out there and say something. Even if you make a fool out of yourself, it'll be the only way to get used to doing it. Everyone gets nervous at times, don't worry too much about it. Good luck!
2007-01-22 22:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a convo. go up 2 her nd say hey wuts up, or somethin like that. then after a couple days, u 2 could be tlkin everyday. when/if u become good friends, then you can say do u want 2 go out with me. hope this help! good luck!
2007-01-22 22:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by dangg x jessss (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to ask a girl out, you have two options .
you either need to 1)walk up to her and say that you would like to hang out some time, or 2} ask one of her friends to do it for you.
Either way, if you really like her, and she knows alot about you , she will say yes. Im a girl so i know. (im NOT a lesbo )
2007-01-22 22:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by TANNER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself....Im sure she'll like you....start out with small talk....then after awhile work up to askin her out.Other wise she might say no....Get to no her and tlk to her more before you ask.And by the way good luck!!!!
2007-01-22 22:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by iDK YET<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just as nervous as you, so be a man and ask her out. If she rejects, move on because obviously she isn't the one for you.
2007-01-22 22:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you have 2 be alone. After class/school, be simple and say,"Hey, I was wondering if you wanted to go out with me." Girls can never say no to a guy with guts. Maybe ask her tomorrow and get it over with!~
~!Jenna-Nicole!~
2007-01-22 22:56:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start taking risks. If you chicken out of stuff like this all of your life you will look back and not have much to say!
2007-01-22 23:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and have a normal conversation with her ask her for her screan name for instant messanger then you could talk to her online.
2007-01-22 22:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by thelongestday41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋