when i was 22 i lived with my uncle right after i got married. he killed my cat my running over him and asked me to sleep with him. I told him he was crazy so me and my husband moved out. Later in life i forgave him. God is in my heart. I finally started to spend time with him again.now my husband and i have a 325.000 house. he couldnt believe how much we grew.anyways, he told my mother he wont go over my house cause its nicer than his. i went over his house today,he started to be mean again. i went to sharpen my pensil in his sick i assumed it had a garbage disposal. he said, sorry i dont have that fancy smancy like you do. dont f- sharpen you pensil in my sink. than later we went to dinner and i am in shool for ultra sound. he said i dont believe you are going to the hospital for ultra sound you are a liar. then he said oh yea if so where do you get in. you have a badge. then my husband proved him wrong. then he said i talk about my looks to much i dont even talk about
2007-01-22 14:42:29 · 23 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even in English i don't think that would be interesting!
2007-01-22 14:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
You should never have forgiven that bastard. Anyone who'd ask you to commit incest is bad news, I suggest you say as far away from him as possible before he makes you cry. And by making you cry I mean by the time you have children he will molest them unless you get rid of him now. He's no good and that's all there is to it, and he puts you down because he now know that he can't have you.
Don't talk to him, don't invite him over your house or back into your life and warm other family members with children to keep an eye out for him because he might try to convince another family member to have sex with him and you never know. This is nasty and you need to kick him out of your life for good and warn everyone that he is a pervert.
2007-01-22 19:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you uncle is a selfish, self-serving, jealous, jerk. it's good that you were able to forgive him. but don't confuse forgivings someone with the idea that you have to remain close to them. you can't build a relationship with this man. he will spend his days trying to tear you down.
remain courteous because you're responsible for your own actions, but limit your contact because his negativity will infiltrate your very soul and affect your life with your husband and friends and other family.
for him to have made a pass at you definitely tells you he's a sleazy, creep and will never, ever be trustworthy. it's fine that you forgave him, but don't be dumb by being in his presence, especially alone.
2007-01-22 14:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will answer the original question - but can't really understand the explanation's section.
he asked you to have sex with him because he is a sick pervert. He is mean to you and puts you down because he's not a very nice person - he's miserable in life and misery loves company. If I were you, I'd do my best to just stay away from him.
2007-01-22 14:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Marvelissa 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What?! This makes no sense whatsoever!!
Besides, how do you sharpen a pencil in a garbage disposal? Hmmmm interesting.
To answer your question: I don't know, but there is obviously some backdoor inbreeding in your family tree.
2007-01-22 14:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by KansasCityGirl26 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you were in the UK you could go on the Jeremy Kyle show with this little conundrum!
2007-01-22 18:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by chip2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even spend time with this person? Just because he's a blood relative, doesn't mean you have to love him and it's doesn't automatically make him a good person.
2007-01-22 14:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you are too stupid, and enjoy the abuse.
Why can't you just stay away from this guy. If he
approaches you and asks you why. Tell him you're
not into abuse. He sounds like sociopathic personality
and you sound like an enabler.
2007-01-22 14:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because he obviously has psychological issues. Get him to a shrink.
2007-01-22 14:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by George Zimmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not under any obigaton to see your uncle again ever and i suggest that even though you should forgive him dont have anything to do with him .
2007-01-22 14:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take this incident to Jerry Springer!
2007-01-22 14:50:07 · answer #11 · answered by traderb550 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋