well i broke up with my ex awhile ago she still loves me and that but i have been chatting to one of her mates on msn and i can see that her friend is really interested in me but they both work together my ex told me not to speak to her friend over msn but i dint listen and now i like this girl....in the morning i am going down to her work to give her some flowers and my ex will be there and see will only just find out how we feel about each other...but not just that i want to hurt her and make her feel for me again i know its nasty but this sort of thing can make a girl think ooo i really want him back in my life is this truw or am i way over my head about this
2007-01-22 14:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by killergibbo1111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel sorry for the girl who is stuck in the middle of your games.
2007-01-22 14:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why would you take the flowers to her workplace if not to be kind of smug and rub it in your ex girlfriend's face? You can give the new girl flowers anywhere. In fact, I'd be kind of turned off if some guy I was just getting to know brought me in flowers at my workplace, ESPECIALLY if the girl he just broke up with worked with me, ESPECIALLY if she and I were friends. Keep it outside the workplace if you really want to impress this new girl in a positive way and if you really have any morals. It could cause problems for her at work as it most likely will cause problems for you ex.
2007-01-22 22:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friendly advice: some people play fair, some people play dirty. You are playing dirty. You dumped your ex, and now you're intentionally trying to hurt her, and I don't see why. Do you want her back? Is that what this is about? Well, friend's talk, and your ex's mate is probably talking to your ex. Worst case scenario: your ex and her mate screw you over and have a good laugh at your expense. You're in over your head, and I would stop now before you're completely under.
2007-01-22 22:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you like this friend of your ex's but to pursue her in front of your ex isn't the way to go.
Considering you were the one who broke it off with her, then you should have a little respect for her and keep away from her friends.
Doing what you are considering, is downright evil and you should really move your sites elsewhere.
2007-01-22 22:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about some girls, but if it were me and I saw you do that, it would help me move on... I would NEVER go back with a guy that did that!... That's a stupid game you're playing.
2007-01-22 22:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT take flowers to her work. If you want to get this girl flowers, take or send them to her house. Sending them to work would make you look like a jerk.
2007-01-22 22:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by onucoqui2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy playing mind games with your girlfriends, then you don't deserve to have a girlfriend. Stay home until you learn how to respect people.
2007-01-22 22:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by monteee_python 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u truly like this girl...do not try to use her to hurt ur ex...she WILL notice....and its a total turn off....believe me
2007-01-22 22:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by toni s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's mean that you are using her friend like that - get over her and move on loser!
2007-01-22 22:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
revenge like that never works...
i went out with a girl, then she dumped me, then i went out with her next door neighbor who turned out to be a lesbian...
2007-01-22 22:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋