I moved to florida from michigan about 1 year ago. i have no friends beside my brother. ive yet to have a serious relationship. its really starting to really get to me. i know im attractive, i just dont know what im doing wrong. most girls ive been with has been a one night stand. most girls think that all guys just want to have sex. but i dont. i love to cuddle almost more than anything. i suppose it could be my self confidence, because growing up, i had it really tough. few days ago, something changed me. i had a talk with some family members and now i am forgetting the past and moving on. also i used to be very shy around girls. but now i overcame that, and im quite comfortable around girls. all this happened in just a few days ago. now that ive changed and i know that im a new person now, what do i do now?
2007-01-22 14:28:49 · 38 answers · asked by cparkmi331 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if this big change happened in you just a few days ago and you have discovered this new confidence, that allows you be comfortable around women, just give yourself some time.
If you are looking for something serious, you will want it to be with the right woman and the chances of her being the next one that crosses your path are pretty slim.
Have patience, go out and enjoy this new confidence and perhaps you will find that special one special girl, sooner that later.
All the best
2007-01-22 14:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Spandito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your new found self confidence and show it off!, Not *********, just be yourself, be sweet, open doors for them, and follow through with that you say, at least Most of the time! Seriously, you sound like a nice guy that just needs to get out there now, you might break a few hearts and some may break yours, no worries, it can be hard sometimes, but it is Totally Worth It!... I know what you mean by going through hard times too... you take it out on others and/or it can just affect your life, again which in turn, affects others. Trust Me!, I found my guy!, and it was a tough journey, but you learn so much along the way, and it will make you a better person for it!
Many Good Blessings To You!
*Smiles!* ;):)
2007-01-22 14:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure you take your new found confidence every single place you go. Even if its the convenience store! Second, figure out your personality strengths. You know you used to be shy and now your not. If you're extremely funny then don't stray from being funny unless your at a funeral or something like that. Third, never ever question yourself. If you question yourself often women can just tell that you don't know what you truly want. And lastly, just always where a smile! Women love a man that smiles. Or at least I do! ;) Hope I could help!
2007-01-22 14:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Barlow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well fist ask the question are you gay. I'm serious..... Then, since you're the kind of guy that a girl would like. Maybe your personality and the way you act on an every day basis is what people dislike about you. Work on it, then approach the way you feel is best. I know of some very very nice people at my school, that are so freaking annoying just because of the way they are, the way they act towards other people. Not to mention pathological lying...
2007-01-22 14:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep you're head up! Girls love guys who are sweet. You should join a club, make some friends, and you'll find your perfect girl in no time! If you don't get a girlfriend soon, look on the bright side! Remember, life is too short to mope around about your problem. Life isn't just about girlfriends! Good Luck!
2007-01-22 14:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you give it some time and don't focus on it too hard, some girl you like'll come running your way. Now that you've just realized it, you need to give yourself a way to approach girls. Besides, you're a lot more comfortable, which also makes the people around you comfortable. Don't worry, have confidence, you'll find one eventually ^^
2007-01-22 14:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere were there are a lot of girls. This is a little extreme, but just an example. When I was in hair school, any guy that wasn't gay, got all the chicks. It's because all the girls were competitive. That's stupid, I know. But, I'm telling the truth.
2007-01-22 14:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by pilljills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st if u say u dont always just want sex, why have a 1 night stand....perhaps the places u go are no fit for a serious relationship.
Also sometimes when u look SOOOOOOOO hard for a girl it doesn't happen....
2007-01-22 14:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the first thing i would say to do is to go out and meet some new girls and invite them to go out with you or to a movie.....i would highly recommend getting to know a girl before anything gets too serious....nothing is wrong with you and you arent doing anything wrong....the truth is its hard to find a down to heart girl these days who isnt a whore.... just go out have fun and hang out with all the girls...the right one will come along when the time is right!!!
2007-01-22 14:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by sexycheerleader2009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking.... Patience is a virtue. Get to know yourself and more confidence will come as well as better judgment. Once you know yourself you will begin to see things in a woman that you like and and dislike from the start. Also, when you know what to look for she will be right in front of your eyes. You just maybe blind right now.
2007-01-22 14:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Bishop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋