I have this major dream to join the U.S Army, k but my girl friend says it would kill her if we were to ever part for more then a week, Should I join??? I havent told her yet
2007-01-22 14:24:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she really loves you then she will support you.
2007-01-22 14:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first things first...if you don't want to piss her off too much, tell her your plans before joining and she how she reacts. If you do it behind her back she will not be a happy camper. It will also show if she is really committed to the relationship. If joining is your dream, she should realize how happy it would make you and deal with it. Yes, it will probably break her heart to be away from you, but if it's meant to be...you guys will be able to work through it.
2007-01-22 22:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by white tea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what YOU want to do. But it does effect yourself if you join and she is mad and you go off and can't keep your mind off her, and get kicked out or something. Join some type of reserves or something, but every military job mostly requires you to go do boot camp and travel, so take it out with your girlfriend and family. If she doesn't like the idea, tell her all the good things that you get out of it. Plus, they pay you a lot of money and can get you through college.
2007-01-22 22:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by EhGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to follow your dreams and do what makes you the most happy. Let's think about this...if a person that loves and cares about you, if it is meant to be, they will stick by and support your decision, even if it makes them personally sad, because their love will be stronger than any distance or choice of career you pursue, as in the end, there is love.
All the best, Mandee
2007-01-22 22:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by mandee07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your life can be best valued here then over there. Aside from your girlfriend, think of what you could loose or suffer from being there. I have family that are doing tours over seas and it is hard to watch the news and hope that my family members are safe. But in the end follow your heart.
2007-01-22 22:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by J J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned that when you want to join something and you have a relationship that if they really love/like you that they will support you.
2007-01-22 22:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Xiahou Dun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she always known about your wish or is a recent thing since you got together? That's the issue mate; if she feels this strongly when she knew nothing of you going anywhere then it's wrong. If it's a recent development then you need to consider her thoughts if she is the one!
2007-01-22 22:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i dont think its worth it joining the army, the goal of it, the war, the murder of many, using your hands, to protect america, your country is over rated, you can serve your country in many ways, and it does not need to include killing other human beings, and denying them freedom and life to be with their family,just because america needs oil.
being in the us army for me is not a really great thing to do, its not worth it. not worth it at all, i value life
2007-01-22 22:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would kill me too if my guy joined the army, because we'd be apart n i wudnt know how he was doing, if he was alright. but if its what hez alwyas wanted i'd support him even though it'd break my heart
2007-01-22 22:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by julia e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart. If the relationship is a strong one, it can last. It is good for people to be apart sometimes and grow within themselves.
2007-01-22 22:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by onucoqui2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should talk about it with her first and tell her that you really wanna join. or maybe you should wait a little bit longer, and see where things go for you and her
2007-01-22 22:28:05 · answer #11 · answered by ; р я ε т т ч <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋