i want my ex girlfriend back?

Question

well i had been with my girlfriend for nearly 2 years am 20 and she's 19 years old.it all started a few weeks before christmas my dad dint like my girlfriend to much and told me that i needed to dump her else i cant live with him anymore. so i told my dad to stick it am 20 years old not 14.. so i moved out and moved to my m8's house.then i told my gf that she needed to change the way she was and not just spend time watching tv everyday except weekends wen she wud go shopping.i just wanted her to get a hobbie thats it so we ended there and then..now i want her back so bad but she wont text or answer my calls at all i know she still loves me but she says we cant get back together and that we can only be MSN mate's lol.but its not just that her dad has taken controlle i know her to well and shes a loving person then 1 day i got the police ringing me saying i need to leave her alone else i will be arrested...am joining the army soon and i told her ill be back to marry her after the trainin

and she never said anything to that.but a few weeks before i seen my ex gf after my m8 had let her in are house. we got chatting and so at the end of the day she grabbed me and kissed me i stopped it and told her about my gf things then never went any futher. i then told my gf who was very upset about this and dint want to talk to me or anything i know what you lot are going to say (move on with your life)but its that simple we have done way to much in the 2 years (holidays,outing's,family fuctions,lots more) but am up for joining the army in march she was the whole reason i was doing this so we cud get marryed and always be together and that so we can better r selfs.like i stated her dad is stoppin everything i know this is not her actions she is listening to what ever her dad says thats understandable.but i will be coming back after my training and ill be at her door in my uniform and on my knee cos shes my life...but what do i do about her dad ask him out 4 a drink and speak aboutit

Answer 1

You need to leave her alone before she has you arrested for stalking and you ruin your future in the military. It will be hard for awhile but you have to get over her, there will be other woman trust me. Good luck

Answer 2

You can't "get" her to open up to you. She will open up if she feels comfortable - but sounds to me like you guys have some issues that are complicating your relationship. The advice I would give is - don't be 1) too desperate, or 2) too pushy. Just be yourself, have a good time with her - but don't be all over her in any way. OK, she has this crazy idea that you only want her for sex; well, don't bring up sex at all, keep your hands to yourself, and enjoy the conversation. I'm not really sure what her problem is - I don't get it how can a girl be with someone for two years, and be convinced that this person is only with her because of sex; that's just silly. It sounds to me like she, herself, doesn't know what she wants - and it can be kind of a dangerous situation for you, as you could get your heart broken very easily. Just be careful, ok. Good luck.

Answer 3

tusk...tusk..tusk...if you are joining the army, the last thing you want is to get in trouble. This girl is obviously not trying to get back with you. She may love you but she is not in-love with you. (That's what it sounds like don't be mad). There are soo many more girls out there and like my sister always told me, The relationships get better and better. I think that you would be more happy if you just let her go.

Answer 4

Sounds very confusing and maybe it was the right thing ya know sometimes things happen for a reason. I know it hurts cuz you think you love her but love is more than just a feeling.

Answer 5

Wow... that really bites!!! your in a sticky situation huh? I wouldnt mess with the whole dad thing right now just hold off because dads are difficult when it comes to daughters trust me!my dad is like hers very difficult! make sure you tell her goodbye before you leave and defantly make sure she knows that you are coming back for her asap!(that will give her something to look foward to because you know she loves you and wants to be with you. if its ment to be youll know because shell be waiting for you to come back and "save" her! good luck hope i helped you a little

Answer 6

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Answer 7

just let her be and when she calls or tries to talk to you dont talk to her she will come around

Answer 8

Idk. Hard question. Just wait and be patient.