me and this girl went out for 6 months and then she dumped me and then she wanted to be with me again so i asked her out 2 months after she dumped me. now we fight almost everyday about the mosth pointless ****. what do u think should happen?
2007-01-22 14:04:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really want to have a relationship with her then sit down and discuss this arguing issue. Tell her it bothers you and that you don't understand why it happens. Perhaps both of you are anxious because of the previous breakup and maybe you need time to relax with each other. It could even be worth researching argument styles. Go to one of those questionnaire sites and each of you do the same questionaire and compare/discuss your scores. You can actually make it like a project, if you're interested in doing that. If you want to resolve this there are plenty of options, but it has to be worth it for you both. If none of this sounds like it would work for you, you may want to consider just moving on.
2007-01-22 14:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her point blank if she would consider having a sit down with another couple you know or a mutual friend you both trust. Put your problems with your relationship on the table and see if the third party(ies) has any insight on how you two could keep from nit-picking. If you both really care about eachother the little things can be worked out. But remember we are all very different so if you want anything longterm you'll have to take your differences with a grain of salt.
2007-01-22 22:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Fatherjml 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insecure? She dumps you and when you go back you are arguing over the most pointless things? Ask yourself if it's worth the trouble.If it is then try and talk things through,even the most trivial things can amount to "big things". If it isn't then move on and be happy.Remember you aren't married. What will happen if you decide to get married if this is how it is now.
2007-01-22 22:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqui K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask yourself, is it really worth it?
Do you really want to be happy in your life?
Do you like to be miserable in your life?
I mean you can ask yourself questions and people questions all day long, but at the end of the day, you are the person who decides what you want to do with your life?
Take a step back bro and let your mind clear, you'll see where I'm coming from, it's hard now, but take some time...
Good luck!
2007-01-22 22:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing isn't worth it. If you were meant to be then you'd be able to work things out and not fight all the time. Sounds like you need a different girl.
2007-01-22 22:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Why on earth stay with someone with whom you fight all the time. Life is too short and there are too many fish in the sea.
2007-01-22 22:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by mutvulture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good situation to be in, fighting gets no one anywhere. There are lots of good gals out there, she's just not the one for you. I'm sorry.........
2007-01-22 22:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man seriously fighting everyday should tell you something....dont you want to be happy? go find someone else your actually happy with hun.
2007-01-22 22:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren_Ann20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over her and move on she sounds too needy.
2007-01-22 22:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by I love Mirra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋