ok look it .. lately all i have been doing with my brother and sister is fighting and yelling non stop... iit has been getting me on my nerves and it is hard to control ma anger towards them ... i tried many dings like yelling and dings like dat but none of it works oh and if i hit them then i will get in trouble n i dont want to get in trouble becuz i dont want to start problems so da ding is .... what r some good ways to like stop argueing with your brother and sister???
2007-01-22 14:00:00 · 7 answers · asked by ~J3N~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well if they are making you mad just leave the room or try to thell them to stop but dont yell. you could tell your parents and they could say something to them and you could also just ask them to stop fighting with you
2007-01-22 14:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Allison J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha reminds me of my 2 younger sisters. I used to be like you when a few yrs back. I used to yell at them, show my anger to them, hurt them and things. But it never worked. Infact I only got back what I gave them. More tensions and more unhappiness from them as well. So I decided to change myself. I stopped yelling at them, when they start fighting I will just walk away to my room. In short I started to maintain a distance and now everything is better. They sort out their probs and are also closer with me since I dun scold them anymore. The thing is I love my sisters to be bits, but since I dun show it enough am always misunderstood. So just show some love to them instead of yelling at them. And give them the space to grow up. :)
2007-01-22 14:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't it a shame that folk who ought to help one yet another forgot the thanks to pay interest. You did not say how previous you're and what you 2 are arguing about. i assume, your mom has plenty on her concepts she doesn't want you to understand. Why do not you're making a listing. Divide a sheet of paper lengthwise and write professional on the left properly and CON on the right properly. For an afternoon or 2, write each little thing that is composed of concepts on the record about your mom. you would want your mom to do a similar. sit down and discuss it, yet make guidelines first. No yelling, no operating away, staying calm. the subsequent step is to go back up with concepts. good success sweetie
2016-10-15 23:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that later in life family means everything & all these issues will seem silly then. When they yell or start arguments just laugh it off & say I love you too. I only have 1 half sister & spent my childhood protecting her from her perverted dad. We argued still when she got older but all my life I spent protecting her & loving her . Now she is 32 & I am still doing it.
Family is all we have...Remember that always.
2007-01-22 14:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too have problems with My "family". I found the only way We could get on was by not being together quite so much. Find others to associate with.
2007-01-22 14:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY TO YOUR SELF FOR A FEW DAYS WHEN ONE OF THEM START A ARGUEMENT , JUST GO TO YOUR ROOM OR TAKE A WALK ,,THE BEST THING IS TO WALK AWAY TIL EVERYONE CALMS DOWN !
2007-01-22 14:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they start arguing with you walk away or ignore them
2007-01-22 14:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋