He is really considerate of my feelings, like always making sure I'm comfortable and that everything is okay. He emails me sometimes up to 5 times a day when we are apart. He has broken plans with his friends about 3 or 4 times to be with me instead. He has driven 2 hours to come to my house. He spends hours just kissing me and being really affectionate. He always wants me to spend the night at his house and is disappointed when I have to go. He loves to cuddle. We hang out at Starbucks sometimes and just talk. We have sex, but does it sound like he has feelings for me and it's not just about sex?
2007-01-22 13:59:48 · 24 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like he really likes you. If he just wanted you for sex he wouldnt really wanna spend time with you all that much, hed just call and b like hey come over 4 some sex. Honestly you be the judge on how much he likes you cuz you can probably tell
2007-01-22 14:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has genuine feelings for you. If you really have questions, withold sex for awhile and see what happens. Just make up excuses for like a week. If you do it right after your period you'll have a 2 week window to see if the affection slows. Just say you're cramping bad or have a headache, or something like that. If the affection slows to a crawl, then you know somethings' up.
2007-01-22 22:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one would ever know how this stranger feels about you, even based on your description. Why dont you try NOT having sex with him, and see if he still wants to spend time with you. Just a thought.
2007-01-22 22:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Rascal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you. Any guy who would do the C word must love you. Guys don't cuddle unless they like you. They use you and then don't want to be around you.
So HE HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU. The guy talks to you, guys don't do that unless there is more to the relationship. Sound like you got a good dude.
2007-01-22 22:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cy Gold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a winner. Congrats.
Just don't get too attached to each other too quickly. You may want to slow down a bit. But at least his heart is in the right place.
2007-01-22 22:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a healthy relationship to me. As long your comfortable with him everything seems good.
2007-01-22 22:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jhaycen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's really into you.
If a guy isn't into you you would be telling us "He is always out with his friends and never has time with me. I haven't heard from him in days and he cuts our conversations short. He doesn't want to touch me when we are together."
2007-01-22 22:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have plenty evidence he does have feelings. But, he's playing you off. It's acceptable until he's more sure. Only, it is best to answer these questions in your heart than parade them amongst strangers. The heart is good enough to tell.
2007-01-22 22:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by rara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't sound like he is using you. After all he seems like, care for you. When a guy breaks with his friends to be with his girl, that's a good news. I don't think you should get too complicated now, after all you're enjoying your moments too, but it's good to be wise and carefully. good luck.
2007-01-22 22:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing, saying and acting like he has feelings for you he does. Guys don't just do all of that for sex (most guys that is). You should feel very happy about him doing all of that.
2007-01-22 22:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by Chester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋