I'm a high school senior (male) and I have this close friend that I want to start dating... but for some crazy reason am skeptical about her saying yes about the idea. In theory there is no logical reason for her to say no, I know she doesn't like me now or think of me as a possible boyfriend (becaues to my knowledge she used to, and apparently moved past). But seriously, not to solicite myself but according to her turn ons I'm everything she is looking for. She goes for personality, affectionate, athletic, and intelligent guys... She's described me as being "sensitive" without seeming it, which she "loves", we hug everytime we say goodbye, she knows Im the captain of my varsity baseball team, and I'm in the top 10% of my graduating class...the only hitch is that I'm not crazy outgoing like her, im the witty, quiet type... should I worry about that hitch? Ladies, if you had a guy with so many things you found attractive would you allow a minor flaw to stop you from dating him???
2007-01-22 13:58:17 · 8 answers · asked by dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok suave, I'm going to be as forth coming as I can without being a total prick, but some prickyness is going to come out, sorry in advance. Get a flippin' backbone. C'mon man! Who cares if she says no! The best / most successful relationships I have ever seen have been based off a good friendship. If you and her are such good friends and you want her than what is going to happen if you ask her out and she says no? Here's what will happen, she is going to think it's cute and adorable and you'll still be friends because she will let you know, "Thanks Suave, wow, I never knew you felt that way but I just want to be friends." is that so bad? Yeah yeah your ego will be bruised for all of 20 minutes until you get the next hot girl you see than you'll be like friend who? I don't know too many girls that you can be friends with first, ask them out later, have them say no and still aren't your friends. The only thing I think you're worried about is being embarassed and that is where you need to step up and grow some spine. I'm sure you're everything you say you are...now, without becoming a cocky jerk, grow some nads to compliment you athletic build and get your woman. If she says no, there's more than 6 billion people in the world and more than half of them are women and a huge number of those women are drop dead goreous who will think that you are their gift from God. Now suck up your doubt, get off your butt and go get your woman. Good luck man I hope this helps:)
2007-01-22 14:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Q:Ladies, if you had a guy with so many things you found attractive would you allow a minor flaw to stop you from dating him???
A: No... you sound too good to be true! I am sure are telling the truth though! Just ask her the worst thing she could do is say no! You sound great! Go for it!
2007-01-22 14:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 22:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by erke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find someone being quiet to be a flaw. If you possess the things that you state, you are quite a catch and any girl would be lucky to be with you. Take a chance and ask her out. If she says yes, you will be glad you did. If she says no, at least you will know. Don't be afraid to take a chance. I hope you will be glad you did regardless of what she says. good luck!
2007-01-22 14:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, it's gonna happen. Look at it this way, at least you have a minor flaw, and you don't have some gross moulding growth hanging off your face. Then you'd REALLY be in trouble....
2007-01-22 14:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by squigglepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out????!!!!!!!!! I can't help you cuz i've always been the easy goin girl dat just tells everyone wut i want and i've been datin my current bf since i was 16. but ask her in a really sweet romantic way. if yer everything you say u are she won't say no! congrats on yer future relationship.
2007-01-22 14:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by hickgirl4ever 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cause u guys r stupid... we dont understand u
2007-01-22 14:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by clairebear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DAAAAAAAAAA !!!!!!!! becuase we are pretty
2007-01-22 14:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by shawna s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋