My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 years now and he has never pushed us to have sex but I know that it must be on his mind. I am still a virgin but I know he isn't. What do I do?
2007-01-22 13:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by gabs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you are 100% and i really do mean 100% sure than talk to him about it. if he immediatly says "yes ive been wanting to have sex 4eva" than u should say that ur not sure if your ready
but if he says that he thinks the time is rite if u think the time is rite than go ahead!
but remember he will be taking something that is very very special away from you and u can never get it back so make sure he is the rite one!
2007-01-30 09:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do it when you know you are ready for the emotional, and physical consequences that can come with having sex. If he loves you he won't push you. Don't rush into anything you are not ready for or you will regret it. When you feel reay you will know. If he respects you he will wait until your ready. When you are ready to let him know buy some sexy little outfit from Victoria Secret and do a striptees or when he goes to the washroom change quickly. He will know and if he doesn't get it immediately, after geting to the spot that you no longer go further, tell him its ok or take his hand and put it in your underwear, etc...
2007-01-22 22:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only have sex when you're ready... he's been with you a year already, I'm sure he won't mind waiting a little longer until you are ready. And if you want to do the third base stuff, go for it. Just don't feel pressured to do it, only do it if you want to.
2007-01-22 21:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until you are ready, informed, and fully prepared to deal with the consequenses of sex. And then, once you meet all of that criteria, you think long and hard some more.
Preferrably until you're over age 18.
2007-01-22 21:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by squigglepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are ready. You don't want to be pressured.
2007-01-30 18:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let things take their course, maybe he's content with the way things are.
2007-01-30 17:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by chevy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋