I just want to know why he broke up with me and to let him know that breaking up with someone on myspace without anything having been wrong and then just completely ignoring me is WRONG.
But, if he blows me off again I am just going to get more angry and frustrated at him, which he does not deserve. So how do I get him to meet with me? Should I just do it in person, like show up at his door (we are in college) in the room he shares with three guys? Any better ideas? And what do I tell him...?
Guys help me please.
2007-01-22 13:37:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really appreciate the messages, I know I'm being silly but closure is just always nice and I wanna know things like, how long were we broken up for before I figured it out and just...why. It was literally like a gradual change...over maybe three days?
And I do need to see him to get back a movie back from him, it is a friend's. I'll try and restrain myself..
2007-01-22 14:04:15 · update #1
My advice would be to stop calling him don't message him on my space any more either you don't want to come off desperate obviously this guy is immature so when you call or message him he could be making you out to be a bit crazy or in love with him and since you go to college you know how rumors get started. I say find out about any parties or some where you know he will be and act like you just accidentally ended up at the same place same time and then confront him just act like you don't care and laugh about it let him see you are doing more then fine and who ever he is with will see that also and it will make him look stupid. Say something like oh hey what the hell happened to you did you fall off the planet or something and laugh.......and don't forget to look HOTT :)
2007-01-22 13:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by ninalatti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the saying "living well is the best revenge"... meaning that you'll do just fine without him and one day he'll regret breaking up. Don't skulk around trying to reach him or knocking on his door. He took the coward's way out, and I agree with you that the way he did it was wrong. But confronting him is probably not going to help you in any way. In your place I would just completely ignore him, move on and get somewhere in your life. If he starts trying to contact you, continue to ignore him. He doesn't deserve the attention.
2007-01-22 13:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he owes you money, forget about him. Breaking up with someone on-line sounds like a particularly passive-aggressive and frustrating-to-the-dumpee way to go about it BUT if you think about it, it's really no worse than just not returning calls. The reason we generally want someone to do something which hurts us in person is because we want a chance to talk them out of it. Which, if we're not going to be successful in our attempt to persuade, will often turn into a much nastier scene than if we had just walked away, and ESPECIALLY if we're temporarily successful in getting them to take us back. The key word there is "temporarily." Getting the last word is not that important. And obviously there is indeed something wrong from his point of view, if not yours. Go find someone else with whom you better get along.
2007-01-22 13:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a prick... since you said you were in college, there is no excuse to break up with someone via myspace.. he doesnt deserve your time.. he doesnt care about you.. if he did, he would have ended it anyway but that!!
dont show up at his place.. in the end, it will only embarrase you and you will wish you had never done it..
write it off as another 'ss... he doesnt deserve your time of day
2007-01-22 13:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by FRESH_PEACH_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a guy's help--you need to be slapped by a woman.
Here it comes... **SLAP**
That was for being a dumb girl and chasing some penis that isn't worth it. He's not into you, and that's OK. Just don't give him the satisfaction of hunting him down to "tell him off." Obviously, that will only make you look even worse.
Stand tall--you're better than that! Have some self-decency and forget about him!
2007-01-22 13:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quick question. Are You Male or Female? The gender is relevant to the answer. You done want to be confrontational when Your purposes would be better served by restrained action.
2007-01-22 13:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, nobody breaks up without something being "wrong". Do they wake up at 6am, look at your picture next to the bed and say, "God, I just love her sooo much...guess it's time to dump her." Um...no. So here's the real question...Are you trying to hold onto this, or are you just looking for some closure? Hey, it's normal to want some kind of answer. Problem is, you don't always get one...
2007-01-22 13:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it. If you believe in Karma, he'll get what he deserves in the long run. He was a spineless loser to break up with you over myspace, so just count your blessings that you're rid of him, and move on.
2007-01-22 13:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by squigglepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't confront. Any male who breaks up with a girl in any other form than in person is not a man, but a confused child not worth your time.
2007-01-22 13:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl..have some self respect and walk away! You sound like you are stalking him, and chances are when he tells you why he broke up with you its not going to make you feel any better MOF it will probably hurt even more...so just STOP already. He doesnt want you..HIS loss. Seriously.
2007-01-22 13:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋