I met a wonderful man on the Internet and he from my home town. He came up from where he lives now to see his family and we went out on two dates, I then went down to see him this past weekend and we had a GREAT time. He spent all three days with me at my hotel and cuddled up next to me when he slept, and we went on wonderful dates and had a lot of fun. So now when I left I was very upset I didn't let him know about it of course, how and when can I let him know that I really like him. I am widowed, and a mother of two and I need some help with this I didn't think that a mother or two who is in her mid-twenties could fall in love again.....some one help me. And guys how can I tell if he feels the same for me. Only respectful answers, as I am in no mood for it. Thanks
2007-01-22 13:36:27 · 12 answers · asked by browneyedgirl3528 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes we spoke, we went out and went go karting, had fondue, and shui, we went to see a movie and had a good time.
2007-01-22 13:41:57 · update #1
Oh and just one more question...When can I go and see him again, and how do I ask him when I can so? I guess thats two questions. I know I seem clueless but I havent had to do this... I married my first love, so this is all new to me.
2007-01-22 13:50:07 · update #2
His family knows about me, I know where his sister and brother in law work and live, he told me where his mom and dad work and live, I know where he works as he has talked to me while he was at work, he took me to his apartment, he took me every where in his truck....maybe this extra info will help. I mean we do know alot about one another.
2007-01-22 13:59:15 · update #3
Oh an when he was here he took myself and my youngest son out to dinner and he was great with him.
2007-01-22 14:00:15 · update #4
You don't need any help. Everything sounds like it's going fine. The only thing I would warn you about is making sure he's being honest with all the stuff he's told you. If everything is on the up and up, you're all good. I think he knows you like him since you two spent time together and had fun. At some point, you could start a conversation about the feelings you two have for each other to make sure you're both on the same page. Don't do it too soon or he might freak out. Just play it all by ear. Honestly, it sounds like everything is already going well so just enjoy it, be honest and have fun. After everything you've been through, you deserve this. Good luck!
2007-01-22 13:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay let's start from the top, you have known him for 3 years was this a constant every day seen him relationship or was it the once a week on the weekends thing? What do you really know about him? Not everyone on the internet is a predator. Most are just lonely people like yourself who have nobody to talk to or have a phone phobia. That's okay we are all made differently in this world. Do you have any mutual friends online? Like did you meet in a chat room and other people knew him? You might ask them if they heard from him but really once he is 'offline' he has to deal with reality, whatver that may be. If he is moving he wouldn't have a chance to get to his email, a phone call in this case might be the best bet. He might not answer you might only get his answering machine/voice mail. Be brief, state your concern, tell him you hope he got the job and wish him a Merry Christmas. Then wait... if you don't hear from him by New Years Day figure he is hip deep in reality and has moved on .. then you do the same.
2016-05-23 23:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down or you may scare him. Also, how is he with kids? Did he take you around any of his family or is he hiding a girlfriend or something? Do you know if he actually has a decent job or anything? Try to find out about him through old friends if you can.
Infatuation is a great part of the relationship but can be misleading. All you've done is have fun, you can't really know him. Not trying to bust your bubble, but it sounds like you had a terrible loss and may be looking for some happiness to help overcome. Good Luck!
2007-01-22 13:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by rob602pa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you met a nice guy. However, that is kinda moving fast. Slow down, write him a letter, not a Email, and tell him about the wonderful time you had, and that you would like to explore the two of you more. If he is interested, he will let you know.
PS I said write a letter because you can save letters forever, not emails. Who knows, they might be in a shoe box 20 years from now in your bedroom closet, next to his things. Oh, and spray the letter with the perfume you wore there.
2007-01-22 13:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
being a mother for 2 doesn't make you unattractive. just be honest and straight forward to the guy you likes. especially bout the fact tht you are a widow with 2 child, if a relationship start with an intention to cheat, it's not going to work. if he really likes you, he won't bother if you have 2 children or even HIV.
As for, how can you tell if he feels the same for you. hmmmm, you already have the answer in your heart.
2007-01-22 13:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by KCL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My past relationship started the same way, on the internet, moved way to fast, we got engaged 2 months later, planned to relocate, when it didn't happen, it hit the fan for him. We were trying to get things back together, he kept saying don't give up on me, and yesterday, he changed his phone number, so much for professing your love. Please, just take it slow, and if it is meant to be, it will happen. Sounds like the feelings were mutual. Good luck, and do let him know what a grand time you had, and when can we get together again?
2007-01-22 13:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It definitely seems that you're in love again based on your writing. And it seems that he likes you. Congratulations. It's nice to love and be loved back. The only thing that could ruin it is if you go too fast. It may seem hard to do right now but fight your urges and just relax. Sounds like you're doing just fine. Just be patient.
2007-01-22 13:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, hopefully during those days of dating you actually spoke to one another... if so, give that a try. Seriously. Just talk to him. Tell him you had a great time and want to spend more time with him somehow.
2007-01-22 13:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start this relationship off with honesty and you can't go wrong. Tell him how you feel, no doubt.
2007-01-22 13:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by blue23ll 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My advice would just be to tell him the truth and how you feel, if he really likes you he'll accept everything about you.
2007-01-22 13:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by I love Mirra 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋