we were suppose to go to bf mother for dinner.. he got drunk to go passed out a 430pm after 630 i a started drinking.. his daughter age 11 called to see if we were coming.. his mom has coustodsy ..i told her not tonite sweet heart...i started by then.. he did not stay sober..why should I...but now i wonder if ..when i know somrthing like that is going down . . should i stay sober.. i could... not sure about him
2007-01-22 13:29:54 · 6 answers · asked by ? 5 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
not sure i could stay sober ...tnarpfert.. i was for 15 yrs.. and the last drop i had i was 20 and the first drop was 4 week old//if i am happy i will.. i quit for 15 yrs cause i wanted a family/// it just did not work out
2007-01-22 13:44:26 · update #1
you may be right voodo
2007-01-22 13:46:19 · update #2
I feel sorry for his daughter. How sad that must make her feel. If you want to be with him..stay sober for her sake.
2007-01-22 15:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by HuskersRock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your first sign that he will be letting her down many times in the future. I dont drink myself. But if he gets drunk on a night when he had a date w/you, his mom and his daughter, who do you really think was hurt the most? More than likely his daughter. Afterall, you joined in 2 hours later. Need to keep othe feelings of others in mind.
2007-01-22 21:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by izzitonme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to live like that anymore. You are not obviously very happy with how your life is going. Call Alcoholics Anonymous and find out what you can do to turn your life around. Your boyfriend already has screwed up his daughter's life maybe you can get out of this before it is to late. Women's bodies deteriorate very quickly and this means that your liver will be shot before you know it. The question is do you want to live or die. I hope you choose life. I wish you well, and God bless.
2007-01-22 21:35:11 · answer #3 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His behavior, in choosing to drink excessively, may be a symptom of alcoholism.
Your justification for drinking to intoxication, may also be a symptom of alcoholism.
You may need to find some help with the difficulties that the choice to abuse/misuse alcohol might be causing in your life.
Good luck.
2007-01-22 21:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by voodooprankster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know all the input. I got nothing new. Good luck sister. May the schwartz be with you.
2007-01-22 21:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Funnel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And are you sure about you? I don't think so.
Time to put the brakes on.....
2007-01-22 21:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by tharnpfeffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋