The other night my mums bf grabbed me and hurt my arm bad cause I wouldnt give him the remote hes hit me once b4 and my mum doesnt accept it and **** but he just calls me a ***** slut and no one likes me and i have no friend sbut last time i checked i had friends more than him hardly anyone likes him my friends dont want to come over cause of him!!!
Hes always perving on me and **** so I have to cover up I feel like I cant be me i have told mum im always scared when he comes home from work help!!!!!!
P.S everyone knows but aint doing anything about it and my younger sister calls him dad and thats not her really dad but thats the only reason i think mums still here I aint sure.
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2007-01-22 13:25:48 · 35 answers · asked by Secret20004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to you school counsler and show the bruises. if he is really hurting you your mom will be forced to either move him out or they will move you kids someplace safe like maybe your grams.
2007-01-22 13:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by painfully yours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, it sounds as if you seriously need to do something with your Mom's boyfriend. He sound like a bad influence. You mentioned that he is abusing you, and that is NEVER right. Call a responsible adult, whether it be one of your friends parents, a grandparent, aunt, uncle,and even the Police. Also look in your phone book for a child abuse hotline, because, it doesnt sound like anyone is helping you at home, which is horrible! You poor kid! Dont let him ever touch you again, just scream if he goes near you. Do something!
2007-01-22 13:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by אילנה 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you know what you need to call the cops. you can go therw alot and it deals with you in the long run don't sale yourself short of life in the future.I can actually say because of my up bringing I don't seem right now that i have gotten into the real world with three children and a single parent I think how can things be better if I would have gotten help long time ago when I was going threw stressing situations.
2007-01-22 13:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call social services or the police. This can't continue. I know it's not easy, but you didn't do anything that deserves this and if your mom won't listen you need to find someone who will. You know it's the right thing and I think that's why you came on here - to hear that it's what you need to do. Good luck - I'll be praying for you.
2007-01-22 13:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u tlk 2 ur mom and she did nothing. so the only thing left for u 2 do is to call the cops the very next time he gets in ur space. u r not only being physically abuse but verbally 2. ur mom's bf has no rite wat so ever 2 touch u, trust me. if he scare u and hurt u call the cops. let them noe that he hurts u and scares u. if u don't put an end 2 it, it will get worst. u should observer his relationship with ur sister also.
2007-01-22 13:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by sweet143 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to find another adult - at school, work, a neighbor or someone else you trust... any friend's mom... you need to protect yourself because your mother obviously is not. You deserve much better than you're getting. I don't know how old you are but you HAVE to get help! Keep telling people until they believe you! Tell them your own mother doesn't believe you and that you're afraid. Don't stop telling! Remember, your sister may be being hurt even worse than you are! Even if you're afraid to stand up for yourself, please, please... stand up for her! You need to help protect her as well as yourself!
I wish you luck. I'll be thinking about and praying for you! I will remember! Be strong and know you're a good person, none of this is your fault and the adults around you have let you down! Find one who won't! Church, school, neighbor, aunt, cousins, a friend's mother... SOMEONE WILL HELP YOU!!!
2007-01-22 13:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by j in oz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg gurl u needa to tell ur momma now!! thats wrong with what that man is doing to u if ur mom doesnt belive u call the cops or have a friend do u it and tell them what hes doing to u or for now go to ur friends house or something. dont listen to him im sure u have more friends and a better life then that low life!!!! and u needa let ur sister know that aint daddy!!!!
2007-01-22 13:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
evryone cares about what is happenning to you and your mum probably wants to help but she may be "blinded" by love ,or she may be afraid of him too. Try a school counselor or teacher first. You may not get a great response from your mom as she may not want to believe its true or she may be embarrassed that its gotten this bad or she may not be in her right mind.Dont let it go on and on as it could get worse and he may get angry at your mom so maybe keep her outof it at first until shes ready to face upto it. It may take the authorities to get her to straighten her life out and be able to be your protector as she should be Good luck and be strong to take the action to get help
2007-01-22 19:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by FoudaFaFa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the athorities if you think it has gone too far, but you need to be aware that your mother may react badly.
Talk to her. Calmly. Tell her in the moring that you would like to talk to her privatly after school. Give her time to prepare and that way it won't seem like you are springing it on her. Be open and honest with her.
Can you talk to your father? Can he help? Can you/will you live with him?
2007-01-22 13:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by tryingmybest79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have anywhere else you can go and stay? if he is being a pervert with you, he has definately got to go. talk to your counceler at school about it. they can give you the proper channels to go through to get this situation resolved. you dont need to be in an environment like that. its not healthy and you need to talk to someone before it gets any worse. there are phone numbers in the phone book as well. try looking in there if you feel like you are being abused. good luck hun.
2007-01-22 13:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur mom knows about this? if she is aware, she wouldnt call that guy her bf anymore unless she does not really care. hes perving on u??? man u better tell ur mom about all this..btw does the bf live in ur mom;s house? if then ,u have the right to kick him out by law
2007-01-22 13:31:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋