I asked this girl i like from work out on a date about 2 weeks ago, but she said 2 days before someone else had asked her out, and if i had asked 1 week before she would have said yes.
I was gutted, but decided to just talk to her a lot more. I had a poker party last night, and 8 ppl came (she was one) after it finished everyone but her left, she offered to help me clean, after that we sat down and talked for about 2 hours. I invited her out today and she said yes.
Today we spent 3 hours together, talking, got some drinks, little shopping, got some icecream, played pool, even went on two fair rides. whole time was great, and as we were standing at cars i asked if she wanted to do something again this week. She just said she was confused at the moment.
We waved goodbye and yeah........... whats it mean... confused??, is she considering me, should i try do more stuff with her, or am i doomed
Im seeing her tomorrow at work, should i ask if its ok if i ring her later in week?
2007-01-22 13:18:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are playing the cards all wrong man, you need to be mysterious to win this girl- quit asking her out so much- try to ignore her a little bit- let her come to you for attention- I just think you are breathing all over her. Good luck
2007-01-22 13:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by trusted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back and try playing a little hard to get. Woman loved to be pursued, but they don't want someone they can walk all over. You showed her a good time. She knows that the two of you have a lot in common. Now back away and let her come to you. If she doesn't pursue you back, she's just not that into you at this time. A good relationship has give and take. Back away from the situation and try to not call her/ talk to her at work. If she's at all into you she'll want to come to you and talk, if just to see why you stopped chasing her! Good luck!
2007-01-22 13:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't blow her off. She probably likes someone else besides you so she doesn't know who to spend the most time with yet. Just don't cal her too much or persist to always go out. That can get a little annoying. Give her a little time to make up her mind and when she does she should choose you.
2007-01-22 13:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by miranda n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's confused...because she's falling for you..and shes scared of what might happen. I wouldn't ask her anymore...give her some time...still be nice to her...and talk with her...but let her make the nice move. or maybe...she's confused because the other person she went on a date with....she likes too...and she dont know what to do. when u guys do hang out or talk...take a moment to ask her what shes confused about...offer to leave her alone to figure out what shew nts for a while...assure her that you'll always be friends and her happiness means the most to u.
2007-01-22 13:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to desire to easily returned off for remarkable now... consistent with danger text fabric her in case you are able to and merely say howdy I merely needed to tell you I had a great time with you and in case you ever lose interest and wanna dangle out then supply me a decision. Then she would not could desire to respond, yet you have left an invite which would be interior the returned of her ideas.
2016-11-26 20:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because she said she was confused does not mean there is another man involved.
you said she was from your work, prehaps she is worried that if you two go on to dating and then break up then having to work with you after that.
I know myself that in the past I have chosen my work and study over starting relationships, maybe thats what she is confused about.
2007-01-22 13:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by ros_0123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't seem eager if you ask her out, b cuz you'll seem desperate.
give her some space. she's probably not the right one for you, look 4 sum 1 who won't treat you the way she did. if you ask her out again don't breathe all ovr her and just let her decide. after you ask, stay clear and let her come 2 u. good luck!!!
2007-01-22 13:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
carry on dating her if she don't refuse. but set a deadline for yourself. if she still tell you that she's confuse and still letting you to date her in 2 months time. she probably want to have 2 both at the same time and you are probably her spare tyre.
leave her for your own good if situation persist for long. she's probably that kind of people with a few "FISHING ROD". hunting for multiple fish.
2007-01-22 13:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by KCL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused....she must be thinking of that other guy. Becareful in case she is hung up on this other guy. That is all I can think of why she says she is confused. Just be on your guard so you don't get hurt. Be up front with her and ask her what she meant.
2007-01-22 13:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by November 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she really doesn't know if she should say yes or no she probably likes you but she doesn't know yet give her some time she'll come around if she doesn't o well move on.
2007-01-22 13:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋