she has never been there for through 3 deaths of my friends, it seems she don't care. But I'm sexually attracted to her. But I pretty much hate her.
2007-01-22 13:12:59 · 20 answers · asked by mnguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up with her if it's only sexual attraction. It's not fair to her to string her along if you don't love her.
2007-01-22 13:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by the love guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said you're infatuated with her and you hate her, you don't love her. Why should she be there for you? Exactly. Sexual attraction means next to nothing. Be happy she says she loves you because you obviously don't care about her. Do her a huge favor and break up with her.
2007-01-22 21:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a conversation you should take up with her. Tell her how you feel. Let her know that you wanted her to be there when you lost your close friends. The best why to resolve this is to take this up with her. Do you feel like you cant be around her or the thoughts of her make you sick. LOVE is a powerful word and if she cant express her love for you or tell you why she wasnt their for you. Then do whats right but remember this girls cant read minds. Tell her whats going on in you life and how you feel about the situation if you already didnt. Put eveything out on the table.....You might just feel better afterwards
2007-01-22 21:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by lissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like u said, u're infatuated with her and attracted to her sexually. So, I don't see why she should love and care for u. U need real love and not just infatuation and sexual needs to get a genuine affection. My advise, leave her and think carefully what u really want!
2007-01-22 21:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you pretty much answer your own question by saying you "pretty much hate her". Its never worth keeping people around that aren't there for you when you need them. Sex is a wonderful thing, but its hardly enough when you can't stand the person the rest of the time. Now, if she was just a sex buddy, you wouldnt have to care about spending time with her.
2007-01-22 21:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by MaatAwry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "pretty much hate her" then why are you with her at all?
The point of being in a relationship is for the promotion of mutual happiness. If you're not happy and she isn't, as you say, there for you in your times of need - then you're not happy.
However, you also say you're infatuated with her, which indicates you have strong feelings for her, and that she says she loves you. I would give her a chance to explain if you still have feelings for her, but if it's merely sexual attraction and you hate her otherwise - then find someone who can be there for you.
2007-01-22 21:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I think you pretty much answered your own question, don't you think?
Trust your gut, man! You hate her--get rid of her! Who cares if she's Carmen Electra hot, there are plenty of hot women in this world for you to lust after. Besides, when you find a good one, you'll become attached to more than just her looks.
2007-01-22 21:18:00 · answer #7 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god, you're all over the place!
so break up with her. you gave us no info at all except to ramble on. then you say you hate her.
she needs to leave your a** in middle school, where it belongs.
i doubt you even know what you're talking about! you say you're "infatuated" with her. yet you hate her? are you bi-polar?
let her go.
2007-01-22 21:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend from Cuba once told me..... let the ladies go crazy over you not you go crazy over the ladies..... If you think she does not care look for another one.
2007-01-22 21:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
brea it up...sexual attraction with ehr means nothing if u don't love her....and it means nothing once u find the girl you truly love too...she treats u like dirt....you hate her for the msot part so brea it up you deserve better!
2007-01-22 21:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you try and dump her. the physical attraction isnt always everything your emotional needs need to be there too. if she cant even be there for you whenever you need her most then she defenetly isnt worthit. well hope i helped and i hope you make the right descision for yourself
2007-01-22 21:17:38 · answer #11 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋