me and this guy dated for 2 yrs.we both have our flaws,no one's perfect after all.he mentioned marriage, but i wasn't quite ready to settle down.after that, i dumped him over the phone and refused to see him for 5 months.he told everyone that i was "the one" (his parents and friends and mutual friends)and was a wreck,or so i heard from mutual friends.after the 5 months,i decided to see him again.we dated for a bit,but i have this nasty habit of "breaking up" with him whenever i get really pssed during an argument(he's sensitive and would cry).i guess it was my strange way of getting back at him for making me mad or something (we would get back together a day later).so one time i "dumped" him, but this time he refused to get back together.he started a relationship a girl.during this time,i tried my hardest to get him back and realized what i'd lost.after that girl dumped him(lasted a month),he came back to me.now,we don't fight.but i can't help but feeling like 2nd best next to his ex.
2007-01-22 13:07:31 · 2 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's your fault for playing with his emotions so much... especially since he's obviously sensitive!
He's a man... not a yo-yo
2007-01-22 13:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by *Harley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way, it's your own fault that you feel like second best because at one point in time, you had his entire heart in your hands and you were careless with it.
You really could have lost him for good if things would have went well for he and his ex.
Fortunately for you, he was willing to give you a second chance.
And if he could do that for you then the least you could do is stop worrying about whether or not you're second best and start concentrating on treating him as good as you'd like to be treated.
Be grateful for the fact that you no longer fight and take everything one day a time. Push back those feelings that you're second best and enjoy your second chance.
Good luck.
2007-01-22 13:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋