I have been seeing a man for about three weeks now. If we continue down this path it will be 5 or 6 weeks along when Valentine's rolls around. We haven't had the "are we boyfriend/girlfriend" conversation yet and i'm in no hurry to have it. So here's my question, when you are in a relationship you assume that you celebrate Valentine's Day. But what do you do in this situation? I don't want to scare the guy away and say "what are we doing for Valentine's Day" nor do i want to make him feel bad if i show up with a gift and he has nada.
How do i bring up whether we are celebrating it or not?
And what are some good gift ideas for a 30 yr old man that you aren't that involved with?
2007-01-22 12:37:22 · 3 answers · asked by blhenne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't bring it up. Wait and see if he brings it up. If he does, then follow his lead. But, in any event, after such a short period of time, I wouldnl't get him anything too personal. After all, you don't want to scare him away.
2007-01-22 12:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh im in the same situation as you.
except he's not 30 years old he's16...haha
2007-01-22 20:41:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me and I wasn't sure, I would buy something simple and just hang onto it and only give it to him if he gives you something. That way you don't have to be embarrassed if he does give you something.
2007-01-22 20:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋