There is this guy and he seems really interested in me. He asks me to dance at dances, and we talk all the time on im. And whenever i have talked to him, he has responded right away and given me his full attention. Well 2 HOURS ago I said hi to him, and he never said anything back! and then he just put up this away message saying that he has to work on some project thats due tomorrow. and i am really pissed that he didnt say anything to me, not even like i'm busy cant talk or anything. Is it possible that he doesnt like me anymore or doesnt want to talk to me??? please help me, i am feeling reallllly sad.
2007-01-22 12:29:01 · 22 answers · asked by hottie:-) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm... well...
you know, no matter how much I love somebody,
I have to do work first.
that's life
not love.
and this is from a romantic, sooo basically, you can trust me on this as I think love to be extremely important.
soo nope you shouldn't be mad, or sad
but, you're entitled to it, and i know the feeling entirely...
2007-01-22 12:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's busy, don't take it as anything more than that. You say he was able to give you 2 hours of full attention. Maybe his work needed his full attention for a while.
Balance, very important. When next you speak, tell him you're sorry he has to work so hard. Let him know that if he has to work, you'd like a quick goodbye and will be happy to chat when he has time.
Lighten up and don't let him get away.
2007-01-22 12:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be really stressed out about this project and doesn't realise that he is being an A**, so just give him a bit of time.
But if this continues for the next week after the project is done then i would get in his face about it, as he doesn't have a right to do that to you, unless he has a major reason why.
2007-01-22 12:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by princess_kimnus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he could just be afraid of starting a convo with you because he does need to get some work done....i mean he may know that when he does talk to you he wants to talk a lot and he'll be tempted if he starts...does that make sense??? there's also a slight delay between computers so he could have just been putting up the away message when you said hi and he just didn't notice or something.... i wouldn't worry about it, but if he does it again...ask HIM about it....
2007-01-22 12:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m-you can't talk face to face.
Our technology has no face anymore.
rejection-whoa, this is something that hurts, but your boyfriend may be sending a message that he doesn't want to be a your be-con call every minute every day. Give him a break.
I would just give him a time out.
See how he is a day or two from now. Too much of something isn't good-even yourself.
2007-01-22 12:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him talk to you dont talk to him sweetie especailly if you dont know how he feels about you. I mean he could have been having a bad day or he just did not know what to say. In any event when you are on let him talk to you and if he doesnt then you know what let him find someone else to dance with. actually next time he tries to IM you ignore him.
2007-01-22 12:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by coregio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down honey. He may have turned his computer on and walked away, forgetting that it was even on. Dont over exaggerate and talk to him when he ims you back or at school . Play it cool, guys like the chase :)
2007-01-22 12:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by c.a_durham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean here...but you sound a little needy. Ok, a LOT needy. Life is life, and sometimes you don't get what you want the instant you want it...it happens. It's nothing to get pissed off about... If he starts avoiding you on a regular basis, then you have your answer...
2007-01-22 12:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does hav a project. Talk 2 him about it. Personally, dont get pissed up about it! it's probably nothing. Unless he has REALLY ingnored u. I wouldnt be 2 serious about it.
2007-01-22 12:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by CurlsWithBrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. His behavior said it all. There are other fish in the sea -- better ones. The right guy for you is the one who likes you, the one who pursues you. You will find the right one. Don't be sad. Concentrate on your schoolwork for now. Best wishes, Mrs. Isabella
2007-01-22 12:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Isabella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋