guys, llet's say you were best friends with a girl. and even though girls came and went - she was right there to talk to. if you found her even MILDLY attractive, do you even consider taking the next step with her?
would your answer change if you knew for a fact that she had feelings for you?
2007-01-22 12:28:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is your attraction strong enough to risk a friendship? What would be your reaction as friend to see her romantically involved with someone else? We can't answer for you, but some things to consider...
2007-01-22 12:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Joe D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously your a really great friend and that leads into the best relationships. but your going to have to look past mildly attractive or it wont last long. love isnt about looks but how you both feel about each other. try it and see what happens. if it doesnt work out it most likely bring you closer as friends.
2007-01-22 20:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and open about your feelings for him. He probably feels the same way you do. You'd be surprised what can happen when you speak your mind. They say best friends make the best lovers. If he doesn't feel the same, hopefully you can continue being friends and you will know you have found a good friend.
2007-01-22 20:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her and she likes you then go for it. Finding someone that you are friends with and moving on can be the best experience of your life...or the worst, if it doesn't work out then you may not be friends again.
Talk to her and tell her you like her, and talk about what happens if you date and it doesn't work...you don't want to throw a friendship away, but you also don't want to miss out on what may be the best relationship you'll ever have :)
2007-01-22 20:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they probably wouldn't be best friends to begin with. Friendship isn't the same as suddenly meeting someone who grabs your heart in a different way. Sometimes, her inner beauty is so truly glowing that it is hard to see the exterior.
2007-01-22 20:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case, I might go for it, but's that because I'm what the dating experts call "desparate." usually I go for anyone I like, and it never really works. I liked a girl for a full four years without telling her and when I ddid tell her we had decided to be just friends because she had seduced by the class male hottie. And goddamnit was that painful!
2007-01-22 20:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend go for it, the first indication is the last signal. Before some else comes around take the best shoot. Good fortune.
2007-01-22 20:37:01 · answer #7 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, their is like a 99.9% chanse thats yall friendship will get screwed up IF yall dont stay together, having the friendship is better then having her love belive me...... only take the next step if u think u can stay with her forever
and if she liked you, then that dosent give you a reason for you to make your move, it just makes it easier
2007-01-22 20:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by ClixThief 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i knew for sure that she has feelings for me, then yes I would take the next step..but again, only if i knew for sure.
2007-01-22 20:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of people in ur situation and it usually turns out that the guys is feeling the same way so u should talk to him about it!
2007-01-22 20:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by jocy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋