He is super sweet.His name is Tyler.He wants to do thinks that i dont know how to do!Could you give some examples on what to do?!?
2007-01-22 12:23:12 · 26 answers · asked by Danielle L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't sound like you really are ready. I would wait until you are.
2007-01-22 12:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, do you really want to? If yes then the first step is to talk to your doctor. If you don't have one then you should start seeing one. Once you start having sex you are grown up enough to have grown up exams. Talk to her about your concerns and get yourself some protection. Then, make sure you have protection. Nothing ruins the mood like worry about what if we get pregnant or some kind of disease.
Ok, enough of the after school special stuff.
As for what he wants you to do... ask him... It sounds like maybe he's done this before so follow his lead. Just don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
As for during intercourse, i suggest you being on top. That way you have control of the pressure and speed. If he's on top he may hurt you without meaning to.
2007-01-22 12:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fun is in discovering what you can do, and what feels good. The only thing you HAVE to do is use protection, and get information on the basics from your parents. If you can't talk about this with your parents, find another trusted adult. If you don't have any trusted adults to talk to -- then you probably shouldn't be doing this yet.
2007-01-22 12:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i hope ur of an adult age first of all. Second......take precautionary measures to protect yourself ei....condoms (dont rely on him to have them) third.....just let it flow naturally. its all a learning experience and nobody can tell you what to do. if he is experienced, he will know. but if both of you are inexperienced, you know the basics. just rolll with whatever feels good. there are no right or wrong ways to do anything when it comes to sex. you have to be open minded and experimental. as long as you two can keep that in mind, you will have a great time. (ps.....dont expect it to be mind blowing your first time as it can be quite uncomfortable. just keep in mind it does get better the more you learn about yourself.) it takes experience to enjoy it to the max. good luck.
2007-01-22 12:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having no exprience actually makes you look good because your not a slut, if you are comfortable tell him to guide you, and tell him because you have no previous experience ( which i again remind you is good because again your not a slut and you have no stds and he will never hear about dirty things youve doe with other people) That you have no place to go but up, ad you want him to be your teacher. Just make sure you love this guy because you will remember these things forever
2007-01-22 12:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start with some oral and then get totally undressed if u already arent and then let him be on top so it isnt as akward and things will just come naturally lol but seriously the hardest part for your first time with someone is just get over the nervouse part. good luck and have lots of fun ;) lol
2007-01-22 12:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean? umm
give an example of what he wants to do
but i guess make sure u know how to put on a condom..
basically all there is to sex is letting him do what he wants lol
like its pretty easy
just get into it get horny lol and get busy!
let him be on top cuz he knows more and just make sounds of pleasure and stuff
let me know if u need specific help
2007-01-22 12:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If u are asking then it simply means u are way too young to have sex, we cant stop u from having it but what we can do is educate u to practice safe sex
2007-01-22 12:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all a learning experience. Just go with it in the moment and follow his lead.
2007-01-22 12:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be closer to him, because as long as you are close to him you will be able to read his thoughts though you will know the he is thinking and you gonna do what he wants, and if you can't do it try to learn it to do it with him, and be sure that if you did what he wants you to do without telling you to do it, you will be closer to him, will love you more and your relation will be successsful as you will have a harmony and understanding in your relation .
2007-01-22 12:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way it's gonna be awkward the first time. Just practice.
2007-01-22 12:32:48 · answer #11 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋