If they don't love you and treat you bad - how can you make yourself stop loing them?
2007-01-22 12:21:07 · 5 answers · asked by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time. When I think about the bad breakups I had and how much I hurt cause I loved them so much...I laugh cause I can't figure out why it hurt anymore cause my feelings for them are gone! The more time that passes, the strong feelings for him will be less and less until one day you see him at the mall with his new girlfriend and you aren't even jealous.
2007-01-22 12:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is, if they don't treat you right and dont love you back, its not love at all. I dont think you can actually be in love with someone who doesn't love you back. Just remember all the time you are wasting on that person your real love is out there waiting to be found. So suck it in and you will get over it!
2007-01-22 12:30:35 · answer #2 · answered by mander_stickley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone could say that time will help but the truth is that time only helps for a while. I was in the same situation and it took me 3 years to let go and still had feelings for him. Well I will have to tell you that it is really difficult to let go of someone that's part of your heart it's like there ripping you in two parts. For me the only thing that help me is to realize that I was in that situation and then I prayed and cryed at the same time cas I knew I didn't want to let him go! Only God took him out of my heart and my mind.
2007-01-22 12:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by punk queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see how you can love someone who can treat you so bad.....but sometimes you just have to LET GO it is hard and it sucks really bad but it will all be ok in the end because when you find someone who doenst treat you bad you'll wonder why you loved the other one to begin with....just let go and good luck....
2007-01-22 12:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by ..cHeRi.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out please let every woman every where know that cause i need to know that
2007-01-22 12:52:28 · answer #5 · answered by MRS.BLONDIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋