ok what do guys think about girls showing up at their place out of the blue to "hang out". you know what i mean. i've been casually "seeing" this guy for a little over a year now and i would like to go see him, but i'm always worried about bothering him, i'm very weird like that. so is it a bad idea to just show up? i've been doing it since we've been hanging out, i just worry about it.
2007-01-22 12:19:34 · 15 answers · asked by atreyu17244 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're not going out at all...we're just friends with benefits.
2007-01-22 12:27:12 · update #1
It's always a good idea to just 'show up'. If he's not in or is busy, at least you'll know. If he's there and not busy, the better for you(assuming he wants to hang out with you)
2007-01-22 12:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see nothing wrong with it since you guys have been seeing each other for a year. Just keep in mind to give him some space. No matter how much we love someone we all need time to ourselves once in a while.
2007-01-22 20:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you have been doing this for a year and he is still your boyfriend that he likes it unless he has told you otherwise...A healthy couple likes to be around each other and showing up unannounced is the type of spontaneity that helps to keep the relationship fun
2007-01-22 20:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like for anyone to just show up at my place unannounced. That's rude. If you have his number, call him 1st. Give him a head up incase he's doing something embarrassing like sittin' round in his holy drawers or just about to take a dump.
2007-01-22 20:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't mind if "girls" want to "hand out" too have a little fun at my place, as long as I'm not watching noting good on T.V.
2007-01-22 20:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just cut the crap.
Guys only like games if they're Tetris.
2007-01-22 20:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by Colonel Enigma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with asking him if it bothered him? If he says it doesn't then there you go. If you find out he has lied to you then he's not good enough for you.
2007-01-22 20:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're so uncomfortable, give him a call before popping by.
2007-01-22 20:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by RipfangDragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm ask yourself.. how would u like if it he showed up outta no where...even if u had plans?
2007-01-22 20:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's going to get sex, he won't mind you dropping by, no matter what time it is.
2007-01-22 20:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋