im as loud as anything when im with my friends but when im around boys im really nervous around guys i like and are to scared to kiss them just im case i make a fool of myself and they dont want nothing to do with me and i get my heart broken what are some steps to help me get over this
2007-01-22 12:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by Tia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your thoughts are your biggest problem. Don't worry what anyone else thinks. If a guy thinks you "made a fool" of yourself, then he is not the guy for you. As for heartache, it's going to happen no matter what you do. We are all human have basic animal instincts. Most animals learn by past experiences, so the only way to learn is by trying new things. My grandpa always told me to remember Thomas Edison. He tried 10,000 different metals to use as filament for the light bulb. Only one worked. Gramps then added..."Thomas Edison didn't fail 9,999 times. He just found 9,999 ways that didn't work".
2007-01-22 12:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by khartman492000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem to have a turn on and turn off switch. When your around anybody you should just be yourself and if you kiss a boy hey he might be the one who can't kiss. SO just don't worry and be yourself and remember what's going to happen if you act yourself, Nothing but it might get guys interested.
2007-01-22 20:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by thinking of the guys as just friends. And you can't be afraid to make a fool of yourself. We all do it. Learn to laugh at yourself if you do make a fool of yourself.
2007-01-22 20:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen ur with guys, just pretend they're just your friends, like girls. and act normal, u mite get nervous first, but soon, ull get used to it. just no matter what, dont think of them more than friends, cuz that just makes it worse. good luck!
2007-01-22 20:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-22 20:22:35 · answer #5 · answered by Susan W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋