i dont wat to do. i completely regret my actions that nite. i am so embarssed that i was trashy enough to commit such a atrosious act. i dont know if i should talk to him tomorrow. cause i just dont know if i should talk to him about it or act like nothing happened. by the way it was my first time. hit me wit all u got cause i really need help
2007-01-22 12:04:02 · 12 answers · asked by Lilly L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
eh?
atrocious?
since when is passionate love evil?
ok firstly, I am a romantic. and I'm proud of it. in the literary sense. Yes, I write poetry.
now then...
I see no reason to regret your actions, you have not said why you do.
if he loves you, and you love him, what's the problem?
and while, an alley is a rather hmm... lacklustre? ok it is not exactly an ideal place for your first time...
that just means that he'll have to make up for it the second time :)
now then. try, nice, comfy bed, scented candles, maybe a bath togather... I don't know... what do you like... try for romance... something nice.
but don't act like nothing happened, if it's bothering you.
and i understand that it's bothering you,
and that's your right... and maybe you feel like you're evil now
and maybe you feel like you've lost your innocence?
or something?
well not really... you knew about sex before this right?
so there's no real innocence left to be lost, right?
only a little bit of skin.
and yea, it means a lot, unfortunately, but it's just a flap of skin. it doesn't change who you are, does it?
you're still just how you were before, and that's what counts.
:-)
2007-01-22 12:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're pretty much a massive whore
2014-06-06 04:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, what's done is done. You can't get your virginity back so you are going to have to accept what you did. Sometimes we do things that we regret but the hardest part is learning to accept what happened and move on. If you think that talking to him about it, will help bring some closure, then by all means, talk to him. If you think leaving it alone is best, then do that. You have to decide what is going to help you get over it and move on.
Hopefully you'll learn from your mistake and think about your actions and the consequences, before you do anything like that again. Think about why you're doing something. Is it because all your friends are doing it, or is it because you feel you are ready? Is it worth sacrficing your self worth or self respect?
And was this guy really worth it? Is he gonna help you work through this, or is gonna go brag to his friends?
Before you go to make a huge step like that again, you might want to reconsider.
2007-01-22 12:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said...you already know it was trashy...that is what you'll always have to remember as your first time...I am 47...and my story is not so different....and it still brings shame.
Don't worry...he probably won't be around much longer anyhow...so it will take care of itself if you should talk to him about it. Well...there is nothing to do but go forward...and hopefully you won't become pregnant....Good luck...by the way....I know the Lord forgives me....but I am still working on forgiving myself, for many things.
2007-01-22 12:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good chance your boyfriend will want more on a regular basis. And learn how to spell.
2007-01-22 13:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one: lesson learned. dont do it beacause ur obviously VERY young and too immature.
two: theres nothing you can do. its done and over with.you have to live with your actions.
three: talk to your bf. maybe he can comfort you. venting really helps.
four: dont have sex. for the love of god, do everyone a favor and keep your pants on until youre at LEAST 18.
2007-01-22 12:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do need help
Are you from West Virginia?
You are not for real-faker,faker,faker.
You Bush lover son of a b***h
2007-01-22 12:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like it didn't happen. He may not want to remember it either. If he ask you about it, just tell him it wasn't him.
2007-01-22 12:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow u need to talk to him! make sure that he knows that can't happen there again! how old are u. i hope u practiced safe sex! make sure u think your actions threw next time and make sure you are ready!
2007-01-22 12:09:07 · answer #9 · answered by porkey_jrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your acting like you went and killed someone, just relax. And chances are he'll bring it up anyway.
2007-01-22 12:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋