My girlfriend likes affection but has a line to be cross which puts her off if tooo much; I don't shower her with it.
Is there a balance of giving opinion from one of you folks that could help me in this? Serious ones!
2007-01-22 11:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Note to self 'too' not 'tooo'.....
2007-01-22 11:51:55 · update #1
aCeleste j
Mail me...
2007-01-22 12:01:28 · update #2
I feel it may help if I added some details...
We met about 6 months ago at work and the chemistry kicked off big time from the word go. We did a few things but because of our current situations we left it there, we got together just before Christmas and put our failed first attempt down to the crap we had going on at the time.
I feel so over the moon that we're finally a couple at last that maybe I'm jumping in feet first...
2007-01-22 12:07:23 · update #3
Have you ever downed too many marshmallows?
First of all why are you being too sweet? you must want something. Use reverse psycology on her-try acting like you don't care. That makes them think the fish is getting away!
2007-01-22 11:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fun of learning about your partner is getting the expressions of love and caring to a point where it is just right. Why worry so much about all these lines and limits--you can go crazy over it. If she craves all this attention and makes you feel unsure about yourself, you need to rethink all of this. Do what comes natural and you can't go wrong.
2007-01-22 11:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it works differently in all relationships and the only way is to keep trying until you find that happy medium in your relationship
2007-01-22 12:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just explain to her that ur an affectionate person but u do realise that she is not as affectionate as you and between the two of you u will find a happy medium
2007-01-22 11:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by louisem28 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a personal thing..
Different strokes for different folks...
Some like a lot, some don't...
2007-01-22 11:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try your best.her food may be another person's poison.
don't do too much of what she don't like but much of what she likes.
2007-01-22 11:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by bright 247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to much just enough to get by
2007-01-22 13:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by pirateron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her...only she can tell you....
2007-01-22 11:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋