People always used to call me a whore; athough, i dont even sleep with anyone. Im only 14, and i am not allowed to date until i am 16, but i have dated in the past, but my parents have no idea. There is this one guy that goes to my high school and i like him alot and we have known each other since like preschool, should i make my move or wait until i can date?
2007-01-22 11:49:53 · 59 answers · asked by red hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only if you charge for it
2007-01-22 11:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by monetspicasso 3 · 2⤊ 7⤋
The people who called you a whore do not understand the meaning of the word. Being a whole involves the number of guys you sleep with and the circumstances you do it in.
But honey, i lost my virginity at 14 and regret it like crazy. I thought i was in love, had a long time boyfriend and figured that's the way it was supposed to happen. Trust me, you're not ready.
As for the guy, if you can't date him then all that's left is sneaking around and sleeping with the guy. Is that what you want?
2007-01-22 11:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are DEFINITELY not a whore for sleeping with one guy, as long as the feelings you had for him were genuine, and you weren't just doing it for "fun" or whatever. As for the guy you like now, are the feelings mutual? If so, I don't see why you shouldn't give it a shot. Dating doesn't mean you have to do "it" or anything like that. Its basically just spending time together, having fun, getting to know each other. Parents can be tricky though. Sneaking around isn't a very honest thing to do, but in the end your parents will love you, regardless. Then you have to think though, is the boy really worth losing your parents' trust?
2007-01-22 11:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by sunangel2888 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with someone for the sake of sleeping with them, then you're a whore, it dosen't matter how many people you sleep with. If its because you have a deep, meaningful relationship, then go for it. BUT. Are you old enough to handle the consequences? What would you do if you got pregnant? Would you stay with this man for the rest of your life and raise his child? then no, you shouldn't be sleeping with him.
By the way, 14 is WAYY too young. Wait until you can at least date! There is only so deep and emotional a relationship can be without dating!
2007-01-22 11:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that does not make you a whore But you are only 14 the same age as my Daughter.She is not aloud to date till she is 16.Don't go behind your parents back and date a guy becuse thats maybe why people are calling you that nasty name,you have all you highschool years to date Don't rush.
2007-01-22 11:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well 14 is illegal in almost all states so if you care about the guy atleast wait till you 16 because if your parents find out they have the right to lock him up it's called Jail bait so just wait a couple years and trust me you'll have tons of hooking up when you 16 for the rest of your life...
2007-01-22 11:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by justindephilippo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with a guy at your age and you don't think being called a whore was right? Think again! Yeah wait, not to 16 but 18!
2007-01-22 11:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I Hope you have not make that move as yet. I will tell you that you should wait until you or of age. That means that until you finished School and Collage. and fiend the wright guy then you make that move. Think about this, suppose you make that move now and get pregnant @. 14 or even 15? then you would have to droped out of School &. have to take care of a child, so you should lesting to your parents because they are telling you the correct thing. One thing you should not do, You should not lesting to most
of your friends espically those that have already make that move
or your Boy friend who wold like you to make that move! you should wait and wait, and wait. until the time is correct, THEN YOU MAKE THE MOVE! I hope your Boy friend is not preshowing you and if he is I hope you are not lesting to him. I think you are a good young lady so you are all right. you go girl.>>
2007-01-22 12:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by norman j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is way too young to be thinking about sex. The first sign that says you shouldn't have sex is how you say "i like him a lot" you don't LOVE this guy so you shouldn't have sex with him. Virginity is a precious thing, and once it's gone to waste your going to wish you have waited. I had plenty of oppurtunities to have sex when I was younger (the first oppurtunity came when I was 12). But i denyed all those guys. I was a virgin until the age of 18 and I lost it to my boyfriend of 2 years, and we are still together to this day.
If your too afraid that this boy is going to not like you if you don't have sex with him, then obviously hes only liking you because he wants sex.
16 is still young to have sex. Sex is a bigger responsibility than you may think, Condoms arn't very effective.. you should get birth control IF you don't want to become pregnant.
It's your life, think about it long and hard. When your older and you look back will you regret it? there's probably a 99.9% chance that you will.
Wait until your with someone who you know is the one for you and that you can say "your in love with" instead of "I like him a lot"
2007-01-22 11:56:29 · answer #9 · answered by beth3988 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sound preachy here...but I think you should wait. I waited until I was married, not that everyone should but until you know you want to do this I would hold off. The fact that you are questioning it makes it sound like you are not ready for that step. Just because you like a guy doesn't mean he is worth going "all the way" with. Make sure that when you do take that step that you are ready and not giving into peer pressure.
2007-01-22 11:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by cdfosu 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should date a school guy because what if you got pregant can he take care of you and the child.It's better to be an old man baby than a young boy toy.And no sleeping with one guy won't make you a whore.
2007-01-22 11:59:56 · answer #11 · answered by Weedhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋