He is always staring at me aimlessly and picks me first for everything. We never really liked eachother as friends. I seriously liked him in 5th grade. But that is it. He is my neighbor and he is always outside when I am. I am a cheerleader and he is a basketball player. I wonder what wil happen next? What should I do? What is going on? My head is spinning! Please I need help!
2007-01-22 10:49:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You two are pobably feeling a connection of likeness with one another that could probably lead to love later on. From what you stated in your question, he is probably interested in you. Why else would he be staring at you aimlessly and is always outside when you are? He is probably feeling a crush toward you. If you like him, talk to him more and see what happens. If not, just try and be friends with him. Either way it goes, you could either gain a friendship with this guy or have a relationship that could make you happier than ever! Good luck!
2007-01-22 10:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world of teenagers--this happens to millions of kids all over the world...nothing serious. It is a maturity builder. You need to be yourself, act your age, and just be a nice friendly girl who knows how to handle herself---you are in total control of what happens in your life. Saying yes or no to a date--or anything--has to be done with style and grace---shows a lot of class. Be flattered if you are being noticed--but take it slow and enjoy the attention. Saying yes to a nice guy who is respectful and offers to start dating lightly is the next step....maybe he intends to do that. You are growing up--so act it and have pleasant conversations with him---you just might enjoy his company. If not, it is your right to decline with a nice no thank you. I'm sure he won't be devastated if you choose to say no. Just remain in control and walk tall--have integrity and decency. Have a really fun life.Bye
2007-01-22 19:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out and see what happens. the day is gone when the guy has to ask first. you may really hit it off or find that you don't but you have to have a date in order to tell.
2007-01-22 18:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ether he think your very pretty or you got something on you, but it a match spot player + cheerleader = relationship.
2007-01-22 19:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all this and you don't know if it likes you? What are girls looking for these days? I just don't get it. What does a guy have to do?
2007-01-22 18:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just have a crush on you...you never know...love is very difficult...but sounds like he likes you.Um yeah cheerleader+bball player=love..haha..um if i was you i would just try to talk to him and see wat hes up 2. just pretend like you only like him as friends...then get close to him and start asking questions about relationships and more than friends...Hang out with him alot and see how it goes...Good Luck
2007-01-22 18:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by brittany d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes you. Guys like it straight up. If you like him tell him. If you want to know if he likes you ask him. "Do you like me" would be a good queston to ask him. Being nervous is okay, just suck it up and do it. Ask him if he would like to go to the movies or somthing.
2007-01-22 18:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by betta z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under age 16 do nothing.
2007-01-22 18:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Tamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you. Don't be afraid to make the first move. some guys are shy when it comes to this and it's up to you to do it.
2007-01-22 18:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..i am such a sucker for this stuff.. =P...lol
that is so cute, cheerleaders and basketballers go together like camouflage!! for lack of a better comparison, i mean they go SOOOOOO well together.
he likes you, girl!! =P
2007-01-22 18:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by A Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋