how can I keep him interested?

Question

I've been friends with this guy since school started and we've talked a little bit here and there. However, this past weekend we were talking online and he said that he wanted to see me later that night, and after going to a few parties, I gave him a call pretty late and we hung out. We talked for most of the time, but when I left, he kissed me.

We've talked a little bit since then, and I'd like to see where this can go, but how should I handle this situation?
What should I do to keep this guy interested?

Thanks for your time and help.

Answer 1

you can handle it to ways:
play it cool and act as if nothing happened and just be friends
or
ask him what was up when he kissed you and maybe go further into your relationship.

Answer 2

Well, most guys like girls that are hard to get. Just play games or tease him a little bit, you know, in a good way. A thing you shouldn't do is always ask him out or be with him 24/7. The relationship will be fast but there is a chance it will end fast too!

Answer 3

You seem to already have his attention since he obviously wanted to see you later on that night and he even kissed you. Just don't put yourself out there like call him all the time and allow him to know that you need him. Guys don't like girls who are needed and clingy. Be calm, be yourself, and let him see the true you. If you were to allow him to see that you wanted to be wanted or needed for that matter, it would probably send the message to him that you would travel too fast into a relationship. Guys like to take their time unless they are only interested in sex. Being you is what got him interested in the first place. Don't be too forward and just be calm and take things as they go, slowly. Good luck!

Answer 4

Just keep talking to him..online, phone or in person. Once you get more opportunities to be around each other more you will see if the feeling is mutual. Above all else, be yourself...if he is the right guy he will like you for exactly who and how you are without you having to put n a act to entertain him and keep him interested. It should come naturally!

Answer 5

Well i have been in that situation before and i think that the best thing to do is to make him want more. Make sure when you see him you are happy and in a good mood. Also i put perfume in my hair so when guys are standing behind me he can smell it and he likes it. Just talk to him and let him know what you want... in the past it has worked for me and still has!
good luck

Answer 6

It sounds like he is already interested. Call him,and tell him that you had a very nice time, and enjoyed being with him. He will pro bally say that he also had a good time and wonder if you would like to go out again.

Answer 7

play it cool. Dont see him everyday.--your a busy girl you got homework and stuff. But dont be mean --when you do see him always be sweet. But just dont see him like alll the time. Telephone counts as seeing him! dont talk for hours on end. make sure he really likes you because if you start doing all this he will like you even more.

Answer 8

be yourself .dont come across to clingy or needy ,find out what the both of u like,do you both have interests,indoor and outdoor.the more u have in common the easier it will be 4 u to have a relationship.just let things come naturally

Answer 9

Apparently you seem to be doing just fine. If it ain't broke, don't try to fix it. I think he likes you as you are so don't change anything. Trying to "do tricks" to keep in interested is like "faking it". Keep it real and natural and I bet it stays okay.

Answer 10

Don't beg /nag alot, let him rub it a little bit and maybe even smell it from time to time, but don't give it up to soon and he will stay interested.