You found out that you're boyfriend of a year was seeing someone else behind your back....and he has been seeing her for the last 10 years......and you just happen to have in your possession a porn video that they made, she has been married all the time...... would you send it to her husband ????
2007-01-22 10:28:39 · 36 answers · asked by Jane E 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What would you accomplish by making the video public? Would the hurt of being cheated on go away? Or would you just cause more pain in an already painful situation. You would really accomplish nothing but revenge by making it public, and in the end you'll look like the a**hole for doing it, not him for making it. And you'll destroy this other woman's life in the process. I wouldn't want to be anywhere near you when karma calls collect on that one.
2007-01-22 10:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would let as many people see it as you can yes send a copy to the husband and get it on the Internet you are not the one who is being horrible to the husband he should know what cheating woman he is married to
2007-01-22 10:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you don't need to. Karma has a funny way of sorting these things out. If you do decide remember that revenge is a dish best served cold, whatever you decide get rid of the git - good luck, and happy hunting for your next decent bloke x
2007-01-22 11:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by zsphodge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a bad boy you have!!!
Are you sure he's still seeing her? I would defo be positive about their on going relationship before I did any thing!
If they are still seeing each other then ya I would do exactly what you are thinking.. Hold off the net thing in case she has kids. Ya I know every one here wants to have a look & I'm sure you are only dying to expose them but if she has kids it's not really fair on them... I mean they didn't hurt you - did they??? No kids - go right ahead!!
2007-01-22 10:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should talk to the girls husband personally and show him the tape then brake up with your bf. Hopefully the other man will wise up and divorce his wife. Bc after you loose trust ,honest, and faith. Their is no relationship to be saved. YOur life will be hell with all the fights and accusing. You will always think he is going to go see someone else when he leaves. I would find someone else that deserves to be with you! hope it works out for the best.
2007-01-22 11:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by candie bear 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't send the vid to her husband. I'd let the husband know what's going on though, its not fair that he be left in the dark. Use the video as leverage.
2007-01-22 10:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Xenophonix 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump the guy and give him an extra tongue lashing from me....she might not even know he's with you. May seem unlikely, but it happens. Or if you can deal with it....you could try and catch them and give them both a piece of your mind!
But girl, get the 2 timing toad out of your life for good! xoxo
2007-01-22 10:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by ellietricitycat 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, be the better person...
Well actually I probably would send it to him... haha.
Just make sure you dump your guy before you send it. Because for some reason I think that's a good idea.
2007-01-22 10:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Her husband was unaware that she was having an affair for 10 years!!?
That sounds a little hard to believe...
2007-01-22 10:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by dan_the_man 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would put it on the net, send a copy to her husband and dump your boyfriend! Hes a piece of poo!
2007-01-22 10:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋