After 5 years of not speaking to my Ex i find i still have feelings for him.. I want him back so bad but do not no how to tell him cos i fear rejection. We spend hours talking.. he has a gal friend and i am in a relationship.. both our relationships are not doing so great.
2007-01-22 10:28:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how do i even begin to tell if he likes me cos he isplaying it safe.. maybe he is just being nice.. i am just so love sick and can't think straight
2007-01-22 10:39:54 · update #1
i also want my ex back after 1 year...i will wait and see how is my destiny going to be...if it is good ,, he will come back 2 me without doing any thing
2007-01-22 10:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by miro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 01:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could still be energetically connected to your ex, and while that sounds like encouragement from the universe, it's not -- it's you! You still may be giving him/her your energy in thought, emotional, or spiritual form. You could be doing so unconsciously, out of habit, or based on a belief that this love is the only (or the best love) you could ever have. And, quite possibly, you have not allowed yourself to fully grieve it yet.
On the other hand, there is also the possibility that your ex won't let go and is still hooked into you. If this is the case, you can clear that out in a gentle way with love and light (and say goodbye if that's what you wish).
Whatever the case, this may have been the deepest love you have ever shared with someone. But know that it is not the only love (or the best love) that you can -- or will -- share with anyone in the future
When you can't seem to get over an ex-love, ask yourself this: are you in love with him the way he is now or the way you want him to be? If you are in love with what you want him to be then you are in love with an imaginary white knight- and that's the case a lot of the time for a lot of people who are pining. Try this:
Make two columns on a piece of paper. Write down all the qualities you attributed to him when you first met him on one side. On the other side, write down the way he treats you now -- good and bad. Then compare the two.
The way he treats you now and your actual experience of him is reality. It should not be difficult for you to kiss bad treatment goodbye.
MJ
2007-01-22 10:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you spend hours talking, bring up the question of why the two of you separated and what is wrong with the relationships you are in now. you may be able to answer those two questions and move on together but make sure to get rid of his girl friend and your boyfriend first if those relationship are not doing great.
2007-01-22 10:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until both of ya'll end the relationships
2007-01-22 10:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait 4 things 2 simmer down and then tell him how u feel.
2007-01-22 10:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by wise girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test the waters but please dump your partners...i doubt an ex would talk to u for the fun of it maybe he feels the same
2007-01-22 10:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋