Last week I went out with this guy, he's really nice, has a great job and his own house and the most awesome Lexus ever,
he came over to pick me up and suggested that since he had left his cell phone I should leave mine as well, I told him
that a friend of mine was feeling kinda depressed and it would be better if I brought it with me just in case. We were at dinner and she called me a whole bunch of times and I took them because she is my friend for a long time, and then after only like the fifth call, he got up and left, he ditched me, was he crazy or something, at least he paid his meal, but I had to pay for mine and I didnt have any cash and plus I had to call my friend to come pick me up, whats wrong with this guy?
Ive called him like three times since, but he never replies, I really wanna see him again, why cant he understand that my friend needed me? We had just started our date too, and now he wont call back or answer emails.
What can I do to win him again?
2007-01-22 10:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is ridiculous for someone to interrupt your dinner 5 or more times. I would have left too. Tell your friend you are on a date and call her when you get home or tell her to go to the emergency room. Or, better yet, tell your date that you need to go be with your friend. That is respectable.
Buy a clue. One short time is OK. But what you did was rude. Sorry, don't mean to be mean but someone has to tell the truth.
2007-01-22 10:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a bit overeacting ... but ...
You should know that it is NOT RIGHT to pick up even a (singular) phone call during your first date UNLESS it's life and death issue. So, you said you took a whole bunch of calls ... that's probably why he wasn't so happy ...
Well, I guess there's nothing you can do now ... doesn't look like he wants to have anything to do with you ...
Best thing is to apologize and maybe ask him if you guys can re-do the date all over again and promise him this time there will be no phone calls in between.
If he still doesn't reply ... well I guess you'll learn from your mistakes. Good luck!
2007-01-22 18:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you were pretty rude to him. You showed him five times in a row that he is not important to you, that you would interrupt a conversation with him to talk to somebody else. He should have at least paid for his meal, or taken you home, but frankly I think he had every right to end the date.
Even if your friend was depressed, she wasn't suicidal... she could have handled not talking to you for a few hours, or called another friend. You should have told her that you really want to support her, but don't want to be rude to the person you're with, and that you would call her back later that night (after the date) and then talked as long as necessary.
If you can't see how you treated him rudely, then I don't blame him for ignoring your messages. If you're willing to recognize that you hurt his feelings and apologize, then maybe he'll give you a second chance.
2007-01-22 18:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go visit your depressed friend. She's probably as selfish and immature as you are.
He asked you to leave the thing home, you didn't. Then you answered the phone (only) 5 times in a single meal?
You didn't win him. You used your opportunity to talk with your friend. You were extremely rude to him. I'd have ditched you too.
2007-01-22 18:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was just annoyed because she was getting more attention than he was.
2007-01-22 18:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to him.
2007-01-22 18:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋