Who beleives in weding vows?

Question

To hve an to hold ,love and cherish, honour and obey, in sickness and in health, forsaking all others til death you do part!!!!

If you are or have been married did you beleive when you said these words that you had made a pact for the rest of your life
who is your witness GOD can he stand up in te divorce court for you?

Did you wrie your own set of vows tha you and your future spouse wrote together?

Do we need to get married to make a comitment ? You get a peice of paper and your last name has changed does this justify wht marriage is about?

Answer 1

these were my wedding vows; and yes i intend to keep them


I bid you look into each others eyes.
[Bride's Name], will you honor him?
I will.
[Groom's Name], will you honor her?
I will.
[To Both] Will you seek never to give cause to break that honor?
Yes.
And so the binding is made. Join your hands. (First chord is draped across the bride and groom's hands.)
[Bride's Name], will you share his dreams?
I will .
[Groom's Name], will you share her dreams?
I will .
[To Both] Will you dream together to create new realities and hopes?
Yes.
And so the binding is made. (Second chord is draped across the couple's hands.)
[Bride's Name], will you share his laughter?
I will .
[Groom's Name], will you share her laughter?
I will .
[To Both] Will both of you look for the brightness in life and the positive in each other?
Yes.
And so the binding is made. (Drape third chord across the couple's hands.)
[Bride's Name], might you ever burden him?
I might...
Is that your intent?
No.
[Groom's Name], might you ever burden her?
I might...
Is that your intent?
No.
[To Both] Will you share the burdens of each so that your spirits may grow in this union?
Yes.
And so the binding is made. (Drape fourth chord across the couple's hands.)
[Bride's Name], might you ever cause him pain?
I might...
Is that your intent?
No.
[Groom's Name], might you ever cause her pain?
I might...
Is that your intent?
No.
[To Both] Will you share each other's pain and seek to ease it?
Yes.
And so the binding is made. (Drape fifth chord across the couple's hands.)
[Bride's Name], might you ever cause him anger?
I might...
Is that your intent?
No.
[Groom's Name], might you ever cause her anger?
I might...
Is that your intent?
No.
[To Both] Will you together take the heat of anger and use it to temper the strength of this union?
Yes.
And so the binding is made. (Drape sixth chord across the couple's hands. Tie chords together while saying:)
The knots of this binding are not formed by these chords, but rather by your vows. For as always, you hold in your own hands the making or breaking of this union. (Once chords are tied together they are removed and placed on altar.)

Answer 2

I do wish people would learn to spell or at the very least, use the spellchecker!

Yes, I married using the vows of the Bible. And yes, I am staying true to them. I have been married 20 years.

Yes, you do need to make the commitment. Not just jump into marriage with anybody and then divorce because you couldn't get along. Grow up and do the right thing.

Answer 3

I got married in July 2004 and believed the vows I spoke I did not use 100% traditional vows we created our own but based them on the traditional vows. We are in the process of getting a divorce right now and it is pain full, no matter how much you may believe the words when you speak them life can change and the meanings of the words can change to the other party involved as well. I do not believe that you need to get married to make a committment but it makes it less easy to walk away after a fight. ps you don't have to change your last name!!!

Answer 4

I do. Yes I did make an eternal pact, I wish everyone took it as seriously as they do their credit rating. No I didnt write my own. Yes, marriage is the ultimate committment between man and woman and the foundation of the family. Marriage is all about what you said earlier, fullfilling your vows and raising your kids to know God. Everything else is peripheral.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

"Till Death Do Us Part"....somethings just ain't worth dying for.


Yes, I did believe in the wedding vows I once took. But when you spouse abuses you...I see no reason not to get a divorce.

Answer 7

i believe in wedding vows. my husband and i wrote our own, to make our commitment 'official'. we had the legally required witnesses (our closest friends) but the only ones we needed were ourselves. you don't need marriage to be in a committed relationship, but we got married to take ours to another level, to make ourselves 'family' in the legal sense and also to the rest of our 'families', and to bind us closer together before we start making a family of our own. we hope it's for the rest of our lives.

Answer 8

If you mean "wedding vows" = sure I'm all for them.

But "weeding vows" - I can never really stay true to those. Friggin dandilions

Answer 9

I strongly believe in spell check.

Answer 10

Everybody, obviously. that's why there are never any divorce.